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KaliLove Established Member

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You get out of here!

She is too young like it or not!

 

Don't talk to me like this! I am entitled to say what I want and if you don't like it, that is up to you!

 

If you want to attack attack attack ..Feel free to do that, but don't come at me! ..We all have done mistakes.. attacking people won't fix them!

 

So are you saying that you think people under a certain age have the right to be unfaithful to their boyfriends or girlfriends? :confused:

 

Or are you saying that adults shouldn't have the right to decide whether or not to be in a relationship? :confused::confused:

 

She's a grown woman, but people should practice common decency at every age and the way she treated her ex was disgraceful.

 

Why do you think you get to decide at what age people are allowed to start dating?

Noproblem Established Member

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So are you saying that you think people under a certain age have the right to be unfaithful to their boyfriends or girlfriends? :confused:

 

Or are you saying that adults shouldn't have the right to decide whether or not to be in a relationship? :confused::confused:

 

She's a grown woman, but people should practice common decency at every age and the way she treated her ex was disgraceful.

 

Why do you think you get to decide at what age people are allowed to start dating?

 

Did you even read my original reply?

Read it again, and try to understand it.

 

I really shouldn't explain it to you, it's obvious what I meant

 

I told her she was young, so she shouldn't have been in a real relationship in the first place. (She was 20 when she started the relationship)

 

You wait till you old enough to be in a real committed relationship.

 

You have fun and enjoy your life when you are young. Then when you feel you can commit and be faithful. go with a guy who is 10 or 20 years older than you, who happens to be married and broken!

 

Before that.. Stay the hell out of committed relationships and just enjoy your life

 

Enjoying your life does not mean cheating and fooling around .....

 

It means millions things that don't have to be bad things

 

Fun does not equal hurting others and cheating

 

But if you like to understand my original post in a wrong way, be my guest.

Noproblem Established Member

Noproblem

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If we want to talk seriously about this issue

We should stop treating this girl as a criminal... They both made mistakes

 

The guy who was 22 years older than her

 

Went after practically a teenager; even though he was married with children at that time.

 

She cheated on him, but he didn't leave her, she cheated again, he never left her...She broke up with him a lot, but they always got back together.

 

He wasn't in love with her, he was in love with the idea of her (Youth and beauty)

 

 

She was his salvation, his hope ... He wanted hope, and with this young girl he thought he had another chance of happiness again even though he was in his middle age right now...

 

So, he grabbed on to her with all his might.. Eventually, he found someone else and moved on

 

This girl, is so used to him, because she cheated and he never left. She took him for granted ...She thought he will never leave her...

 

Now, he left her, so she is in a big shock and anger......

 

He never taught her that what she did was wrong. He stayed after every cheating ... So, why put the blame on her only, they are both to blame..... He was a cheater after all! Or did you forget about his wife!

David87 Established Member

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Secondly, this comment is a lot of what is wrong with America. Please, get out of here with toxic advice. She's 24.

 

That was uncalled for, what are you so mean?

 

I think that the op is to young to date a 40 year old man, when there are plenty of 30 year old men out there, right somedude?

 

She gave the best advice she could to the op, you have no right to judge Noproblem.

KaliLove Established Member

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Did you even read my original reply?

Read it again, and try to understand it.

 

I really shouldn't explain it to you, it's obvious what I meant

 

I told her she was young, so she shouldn't have been in a real relationship in the first place. (She was 20 when she started the relationship)

 

You wait till you old enough to be in a real committed relationship.

 

You have fun and enjoy your life when you are young. Then when you feel you can commit and be faithful. go with a guy who is 10 or 20 years older than you, who happens to be married and broken!

 

Before that.. Stay the hell out of committed relationships and just enjoy your life

 

Enjoying your life does not mean cheating and fooling around .....

 

It means millions things that don't have to be bad things

 

Fun does not equal hurting others and cheating

 

But if you like to understand my original post in a wrong way, be my guest.

 

Yes I did indeed read it and I understood it. Thanks for checking in!

 

Let's ask the OP herself, shall we? OP, do you agree that this poster, who I'm assuming you've never met or engaged in a conversation with in real life, should be able to decide how old you are when you enter into a serious relationship?

 

Also..why are you encouraging people to date people who are twice their age and married??

David87 Established Member

David87

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Yes I did indeed read it and I understood it. Thanks for checking in!

 

Let's ask the OP herself, shall we? OP, do you agree that this poster, who I'm assuming you've never met or engaged in a conversation with in real life, should be able to decide how old you are when you enter into a serious relationship?

 

Also..why are you encouraging people to date people who are twice their age and married??

 

In my last replay I wanted to say WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN? not what ......darn it

 

KaliLove you gave the op your advice so did Noproblem.

 

Why don't you let the op decide what's the best of the two of them and not fight over a small issue like this.

 

You have your point of view and NoProblem has hers. We are different and we gave advice based on our own experiences.

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Noproblem Established Member

Noproblem

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Yes I did indeed read it and I understood it. Thanks for checking in!

 

Let's ask the OP herself, shall we? OP, do you agree that this poster, who I'm assuming you've never met or engaged in a conversation with in real life, should be able to decide how old you are when you enter into a serious relationship?

 

Also..why are you encouraging people to date people who are twice their age and married??

 

I don't know, because I feel like it!

 

I am trying to give hope to all the people who are married that there are still a lot of options waiting for them ...

 

So, don't stay faithful to your wives and husbands, I am encouraging the young ones to get you as soon as they are mature enough :bunny:

 

 

Anyway,(20 years-old girl or guy) is too young to be in a real relation. That is my opinion, I am sticking to it

 

Do a research, give me some real statistics about how many people stay committed when they were 20 years old and maybe I'll change my mind.

 

Meanwhile, I'll stick to my original post ..She was too young to be in a real relationship......

 

Whether op like it or not, that is irrelevant.....

KaliLove Established Member

KaliLove

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In my last replay I wanted to say WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN? not what ......darn it

 

KaliLove you gave the op your advice so did Noproblem.

 

Why don't you let the op decide what's the best of the two of them and not fight over a small issue like this.

 

You have your point of view and NoProblem has hers. We are different and we gave advice based on our own experiences.

 

I don't feel like it's mean for me to question why that poster thinks she should be able to tell other posters that they shouldn't be allowed to date, or to question the sanity of someone who is encouraging others to date married people who are twice their age.

 

You and I have very different definitions of mean...

 

EDIT: Ok come on..look at that last post and tell me that's not sick, twisted, and disgusting. That poster is clearly insane.

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David87 Established Member

David87

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I don't feel like it's mean for me to question why that poster thinks she should be able to tell other posters that they shouldn't be allowed to date, or to question the sanity of someone who is encouraging others to date married people who are twice their age.

 

You and I have very different definitions of mean...

 

I wasn't referring to you when I said '' you are mean''. I was ment for Strength in Healing.

David87 Established Member

David87

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I don't know, because I feel like it!

 

I am trying to give hope to all the people who are married that there are still a lot of options waiting for them ...

 

So, don't stay faithful to your wives and husbands, I am encouraging the young ones to get you as soon as they are mature enough :bunny:

 

 

Anyway,(20 years-old girl or guy) is too young to be in a real relation. That is my opinion, I am sticking to it

 

Do a research, give me some real statistics about how many people stay committed when they were 20 years old and maybe I'll change my mind.

 

Meanwhile, I'll stick to my original post ..She was too young to be in a real relationship......

 

Whether op like it or not, that is irrelevant.....

 

24 is a good age to be in a serious relationship. But not with a man that is 22 years older than you.

 

 

Noproblem people get married and have kids at the age of 24. ( the lucky ones )

William Established Member

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As it appears the thread starter never returned to their thread and it degenerated into bickering, some editing was performed and the thread is closed for now.

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