xxSarahxx Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 I met a guy a year ago at a party and upon meeting we immediately hit it off and ended up talking for hours the whole night. I guess you could say we really clicked. By the end of the night we fell asleep together cuddling ( nothing sexual happened). We both were drinking, but we weren't drunk considering things didn't die down until about 7 am. So I'll have to assume that our connection was somewhat genuine. When I got home the next day I saw that he had added me on Facebook and was hoping that he would initiate conversation soon ( since his friends said he would). The strange part was he didn't end up messaging me until about 3 months later. When he did we talked briefly and he gave me his number and said "if you want to talk about anything else here is my # I hope to here from you". At that point I was unsure if I should even bother texting him since A) it made me feel he wasn't as interested and B) over the time that elapsed one of my parents had gotten cancer and I just was not up for much. I contemplated texting him, but never did ( this was in the summer). I eventually got over it and started college fall of last year. Around December I got a random follow from on twitter which I didn't think too much about, but found it strange since I have zero tweets and never use it. Now a few days ago he randomly liked one of the photos I was tagged in one Facebook. I also get the vibe he is shy, but again I'm not sure. I'm confused because I'm not sure if he wants me to talk to him again or what. I guess there is always that "what if" in the back of my mind. Although I've been on quite a few dates this year no guy has clicked like we did. So, is he just being nice and I should let it go? or should I try to initiate contact after all this time..? I know this sounds stupid but I just want opinions. Thanks!
Versacehottie Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 oooh i like it. It all sounds good. Just like you had things going on in your life when he contacted you 3 months after the fact, so possibly did he when you first met. To me, it seems clear that you are both interested in each other. Reach out. You don't have to go overboard. Flirt a bit and see what he does in response. I'm sure it will be positive. Good luck!!
ExpatInItaly Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 I would text him. Something friendly and casual, just to put the feelers out there. What do you have to lose?
Gaeta Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 meh....I would not call anything *a good connection* if it's been experienced while drunk. A man that is interested, even shy ones, do not let 3 months go by to send a first message. He wasn't that shy to spend the night cuddling all night. Sure go ahead and make contact, you have nothing to lose, but don't assume he's into you because of that *connection*. Contact him and consider it square 1.
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