lara 77 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Guys am new here and just going through the same breaking up thing I still have not decided who has broken up First in this relationship but loads of stuff went wrong and we both just went quiet on each other with out saying anything At all I wanted some light from the experts here to tell Me that why would he block me on what's app if I have not even texted Him in weeks ??? I know it's not a huge issue But just trying to reason Any help ? Xx
Trovador Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 I don't think there are experts on this forum, no love gurus out there either... I am just a man who once suffered one thousand little deaths because of a break up, but now I am fine and very alive... How did you learn you were blocked? Were you following or whatever people do on those apps? (Sorry, I am sort of ignoramus on social media)... I think he is now saying something about the rs (or lack thereof), he is officially ending it... My guess? There is someone else in the picture... Take it slow, though, in these matters is futile to reason... better to invest those emotional resources in building a new, stronger, healthier person...
Author lara 77 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Thanks trovador for the reply I found out that am being blocked myelf Once after weeks I opened his window and There is a way where it shows that if u are being Blocked ... To be honest it hurted me ... He is a man of vengeance And he has disappointed me when I was Expecting his child .. He disappeared ... By making an excuse that He has found out that I have back bitten him To his family member ... Etc Which is not correct ... And since then I never contacted him As I lost faith in him that he was not there At the time when I was In need and he could Have sorted out what ever issues were there Once we knew what we are doing with the pregnancy By the way he was the one who was dying to have A baby ... This was his way owning the woman Lol Anyways Am in NC for more than 4 weeks now It's better sometimes and it's not other times Hoping for the best xxx
David87 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 He wanted to see if he gets a reaction from you. I'm happy to hear that you are at week 4 of NC, I know how hard it is but trust me it will get better.
Author lara 77 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Yes David I thought the same as he knows am very Emotional being and would react Which I did not this time And yes am going to keep this NC As hard as it is But doable It's worth And all those heart broken ppl here doing I It .... Am following them as well Each night and day I feel Angry But going to absorb all this ... Am amazed how love turns into a most Sour thing In ones life He can wait all his life for a reaction from me And yes there must be someone else there too What can I say
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