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Is any kind of fantasy normal?


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Okay well I had some crazy popular fantasy here it is.

 

 

 

 

I was fantasizing about being realy cool and all the girls liking me....then I hd an instance where this ex crush was looking at me and I was with some really super hot girl....problem is when I fantaszied about that..th e super hto girl wasn't my girlfriend....it was no one I know..just some made up girl....

but im worried if it means anything in my current relationship...like I didn't think about my gf I thought about some random made up hot girl does that mean anything

 

 

I have ocd and this is eating me up making me worry I don't love my gf now

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A dream? A day dream? Do you fantasize about this imaginary girl when you cream in your gf? And are there parts of the imaginary girl that you find attractive that are not part of your gf (hair color, bust size, height, etc..)

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A dream? A day dream? Do you fantasize about this imaginary girl when you cream in your gf? And are there parts of the imaginary girl that you find attractive that are not part of your gf (hair color, bust size, height, etc..)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

yes a day dream....and well the girl wasn't with me really like WITH WIth me....and it was just a random girl

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Again. Are there parts of the imaginary girl that you find attractive that are not part of your gf (hair color, bust size, height, etc..)?

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no nothing like that at al...I don't even know what the girl really looked like.it was just a random girl lol

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It's perfectly normal.

 

Don't worry about it.

The biggest sexual organ is the mind.

Any woman will tell you that.

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Sure it is normal. Your mind will wander over all kinds of weird scenarios.

 

Like if you imagine beating up the guy who cuts you off in traffic, it doesn't mean you'd do it in real life.

 

You can't control all the random thoughts that flow through your head, but you can always control your behavior. You can also redirect yourself if you are thinking about something you don't want to think about.

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but it wasn't a sexual fantasy

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Daydreaming about others is normal. Is your current relationship going well? Feel a healthy emotional, physical, sexual, intellectual connection with your gf? Then there's nothing to worry about.

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Daydreaming about others is normal. Is your current relationship going well? Feel a healthy emotional, physical, sexual, intellectual connection with your gf? Then there's nothing to worry about.

 

 

 

yes everything is stable

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yes everything is stable

 

You're good then.

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You're good then.

 

 

 

It wasn't a person I know like I said. some random made up girl!! so its okay to daydream about others?? this is all normal? Im new to long term commited relationship....This si ym first one because I really feel like this girl is worth it and is the one.

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so daydreaming about being in a relationship with some random hot mad eup girl is normal?? it was the rockstar fantasy as u all should know.....so totally normal to do so? I just wanted to feel cool and like make my ex crush jeaous....

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