organizedchaos Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Not sure how I didn't realize this until now. I don't want to get over my ex. I don't want to believe that there is no hope. Some stupid little voice is telling me that she's the one. Gah, I'm retarded Yes I'm still no contact. My life was so much better with her in it, and I think I don't want to accept the reality I have to live with now. I really need to replace her, and quickly. You think she is the one because she's been the ONLY one. You don't know any better. You don't know what it's like to move on to your next relationship and how your mind adapts and how previous feelings subside. Or how you can possibly fall even more in love with someone else. I was more in love and head over heels with my ex gf than I was with the woman I married. At the time I got married I thought that was as good as it's ever gonna get. But little did I know what was in store for me. And little do I know what the future holds. But I'm sure it will be amazing. My ex gf may someday realize she blew it big time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jonsnuh Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 It really hurts me to read through this thread because I had gone through the same motions in trying to rationalize everything that went wrong. Everything made sense that my ex was gone, but the feelings that lingered were like ghosts. Seek counselling, therapy and medication if needed to get you back on track ASAP. Be with friends, family and other potential romantic interests you may have had. You have to get over those feelings, and start a fresh page in your dating life. Time waits for no one. Make the most out of it and don't let it past you by. I lost most of my youth my ex, and even more opportunities when I lingered with my thoughts. Before you know it, a big chunk of life could be wasted. All the best. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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