jordanr1994 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 EX contacted me after 3 weeks of no contact.This is what she text me Hey, its me. you dont have to reply if you still dont want talk to me but i know your going home soon and i just wanted to see how you are? what does this mean? i replied along the lines that im good and acting happy which i am and just hope she is ok. i got a reply sying she cant wait to be home also. I then DIDNT reply Do you think she will text me again? we will both be back at home together soon and im just suspicious she wants to be friends just because she will be lonely at home as all her friends will be at uni. The problem is i still love her She is also constantly posting pictures on facebook and istagram of her drinking. what does this mean?
Strength in Healing Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It's just breadcrumbs, it doesn't mean anything. It isn't her trying to get back together, as much as it is to alleviate guilt. Ignore it. Sorry brother
Chi townD Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 She was pulling on the leash to see if the dog was still there. 1
Author jordanr1994 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Just an update. went to see her mum and sister today (she isnt home yet) i then get a text saying "im glad you got home safe. Mum said you popped over. How are you? x" I didnt reply... An hour later i get another text saying "sorry for texting you, i wont again" What is wrong with her?
Chi townD Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Breadcrumbs dude! She's trying to friend zone you. You are not her friend! And what was the point of seeing her mom and sister?
Author jordanr1994 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Yeh i can see that, thanks for the advice. not replying at all. unless its about reconciliation. Had some stuff to drop over and pick up some stuff of mine. We were together for nearly 3 years so very close with the family.
Strength in Healing Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 very close with the family. Cut that **** out right now.
TaraMaiden Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Just an update. went to see her mum and sister today (she isnt home yet) i then get a text saying "im glad you got home safe. Mum said you popped over. How are you? x" I didnt reply... An hour later i get another text saying "sorry for texting you, i wont again" What is wrong with her? What is wrong with HER...?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU - ?!!? You only had contact with her yesterday - so effectively, emotionally - that's when you broke up! If you're in 'No Contact' you never, ever permit the door of communication to be opened again! She didn't break NC - you did, by responding. Read the NC Guide in my signature. When you have to take back/collect personal property - you always, but always get someone else to do it for you. You never do it yourself. Cut off all and any possible avenues of contact with either her, or her family, straight away. That includes downloading a call/text blocker, blocking/deleting everyone pertinent off your FB profile, blocking emails and anything else that could be used to get through to you. Then? Then you start again. Day one.....
bubbaganoosh Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 What was the reason for the break up? If your feeling like you want to get back with her then ask yourself if there was a problem that caused the break up, can it be solved. Now if it was caused because she met someone else then move on a be done with it.
DannyCA Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Yeah dude you better cut all this s*** out that you're doing. You're making excuses. Don't respond to her. My ex gave me breadcrumb conversations like this for a year and I always fell for it. I'm not the only one this has happened to also. Your ex is giving you a bunch of crap (breadcrumbs) and countless other users on here have received and/or receiving breadcrumbs. You guys are broken up now. You aren't anything to each other anymore. Don't respond unless she says "I want to get back together". Oh yeah and now she thinks you want to see her or she thinks she still has some kind of control over you because you went to see her family after the breadcrumb text. You gave her a little bit of an ego boost even though that wasn't your intention
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