Author drew232 Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 Pics can be invaluable as long as the girl has a streak of shallowness lol. I would message about who knows what and girls would sometimes just reply disregarding what I was saying and just say things about my pics. And the "fck off" thing reminds me of another important thing in dating - persistence. It really can pay off. But the girl must like you at least a little from the onset for that to work. That's weird..I've never had a girl say anything about my pics. Maybe i'm not as attractive as you haha and another thought pertaining to "fck off"; "Fck off" means nothing..she doesn't even know you..she can't hate you. Hell she won't even remember you 99% of the time. You could try again in a month if you wanted, and if she's in a playfull mood who knows maybe she'll respond.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 That's weird..I've never had a girl say anything about my pics. Maybe i'm not as attractive as you haha and another thought pertaining to "fck off"; "Fck off" means nothing..she doesn't even know you..she can't hate you. Hell she won't even remember you 99% of the time. You could try again in a month if you wanted, and if she's in a playfull mood who knows maybe she'll respond. Well.. I would think "fck off" means "leave me alone." Yes, a normal person would just not reply. But OLD is a world filled with awkward people, so I can picture people saying "fck off" to get others to go away. Though your non-nonchalant reply to it is good. I can see how a girl could see that and be intrigued.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Unfortunately, all that matters is your pic and height. You have these two things, you can write anything and get a decent response rate. However, I do agree with the earlier poster that said the best message is a combination of both emails. But you still replied.... That did make me chuckle.. Yea u got me I did ! Lol it did die out pretty quick tho x
Author drew232 Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 Well.. I would think "fck off" means "leave me alone." Yes, a normal person would just not reply. But OLD is a world filled with awkward people, so I can picture people saying "fck off" to get others to go away. Though your non-nonchalant reply to it is good. I can see how a girl could see that and be intrigued. I think they consciously or unconsciously would like a reply. I mean if you REALLY don't want to talk to someone just block them or don't respond. BTW i almost never get the "fck off" type message but when it does happen I love firing back nonchalantly. Usually they'll keep talking and eventually she'll realize you're just looking for playful banter. If the girl is willing to play the game it will get you past the 3rd or 4th message..that's for sure.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I think they consciously or unconsciously would like a reply. I mean if you REALLY don't want to talk to someone just block them or don't respond. Yes this is how loooooooooogical people would act lol. But OLD is chock-full of loons ) But yeah, I feel you. A few girls here and there could send it looking for a response.
Frank2thepoint Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I'm in my early 20's. I realize this might not apply to all age groups but in my 3 month online dating career I've collected 5 phone numbers. Only one of those came from a conversation where I didn't act like a complete goofball. am I on to something? thoughts? I have a friend who created a fake account on Plenty of Fish for sh*ts and giggles. He put a picture up of Christian Bale's character Patrick Bateman from "An American Psycho". He wrote that he likes choking women during sex (similar to the character in An American Psycho). His inbox filled up with propositions from women. That goofball act, led me to believe there are a lot of weird chicks out there. Be careful what you put out there. You may not like what you attract.
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