ponchsox Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 So I met a great girl online, we had an amazing first date at a theme park. Sexual chemistry and overall chemistry was a 9 or a 10. At the end of the night, I felt the time was right to lean in for a kiss. We ended up french kissing for about 10-15 seconds. She seemed very receptive and into as well. I stopped out of respect for her and to save some for next time What are your thoughts on making out on the first date? Wait or go for it if just feels right? 2
Stay Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 If it feels right then go for it, that's how it should be for everything. There are no guidelines that you should follow, if it's there then it's there. Everybody has their own preference. 2
Mrin Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Ya if it feels right then go for it. But for heaven's sake be a good kisser. Start closed mouthed. If she's into it part your lips a bit. Hands above the neck at all times. Maybe cradle her head a bit with one hand, back of jaw bone/neck. See if she reciprocates. Don't go tongue action. Maybe allow your lips to cradle her lower lip a bit. If she responds then very light tongue action for maybe ten seconds then pull back, exhale, look her straight in the eyes, smile and say "wow!". Then be a gentleman and wish her a goodnight. And text her a genuine thank you for a wonderful time. That my two cents. 2
Armegoggon Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Aww that's so nice. Honestly though it may not be a good idea to first kiss but since you really do bond well, then it should be great.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Since I've effed on the first date (and think it's not a bad thing) I'll say anything is fair game. 1
Phoe Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Kissing on the first date is personally not for me, but if she was receptive and happy and it felt right, then good!
SoonMyFriend Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It's all down to how it feels in the moment. I normally don't go for it, but if the chemistry is there why not! Well played OP.
d0nnivain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Answers are going to be all over the place. It's a personal thing. Some people don't want much contact; others jump into bed & everything in between. It doesn't matter what a bunch of people on the internet think. The only thing that matters is how the two people involved feel. Apparently, the chemistry was working for both of you. It was enjoyable & hopefully there will be a next time.
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