Downboundtrain Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Last spring my parent’s friend Amanda stopped by while out running errands with her younger friend Cailyn. I was not home at the time but my dad made me damn well know what I had missed haha. Cailyn is 2 years older than me and just graduated college in business I think. She is drop dead breathtaking and comes from a nice family. My dad and Amanda wanted to set me up with Cailyn. She had broken up with her boyfriend (who they said was a jerk and she knew it) and I guess she asked some questions about me when she was over the house. So Amanda gave me her number to call Cailyn. I was pumped because I thought obviously if Amanda would give me Cailyn’s number then that means Cailyn is interested. I ended up calling her maybe two weeks later because I was so busy with finals and had my wisdom teeth taken out (I couldn’t talk without sounding like a retard). I introduced myself and said I wanted to get to know her. She said that she was working things out with her boyfriend (which I later found out she actually was...) and he is the only one she ever had so she was kinda “stuck” on him. She said I seemed like a great guy. Whether she was just being polite or actually meant it, but was just tangled up with her boyfriend, I do not know. I ended it by saying I understood and wished them the best but there was always a welcome invitation to go get coffee or something someday. She kind of surprised me how friendly and outgoing she was. I have not talked to her since but I know she broke up with her boyfriend quite a few months ago. I don’t expect her to contact me first because that’s not what girls usually do. I feel she is a diamond way too good to pass up and now is the opportunity before some guy at her work catches on. Plus she got a job near where I am taking classes so that might work out nicely. Even though I’m younger and still in college I am serious, very mature, have a part time job, and a plan of action for my life. Also I won’t lie, I am in damn good physical shape, which has got to help someway right? Any advice on what my next move should be? Have I done anything wrong thus far? Should I have called her sooner before she lost interest in me or is that a minuscule detail? Was she ever interested in me? Am I wasting my time? I have no problem trying to ask her again but want some advice if there is a better way to go about it. I don’t want to come off as overly persistent if she’s not interested. Any realistic advice would be appreciated.
d0nnivain Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Call her. Say you were thinking about her. You realized that you two hadn't talked in a while & does she want to get together for coffee or a drink. If she says no let it go.
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