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l was completely over my ex of 1 year in 10 days. l want you to know how too.

thegreatesthumphrey

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thegreatesthumphrey Established Member

thegreatesthumphrey

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Best bf l have had yet. Dated EXACTLY one year. My longest relationship, yet the quickest one l have ever been over. There were various possibility factors that could have contributed, but on my mind most was not dwelling, because l didnt want to risk anything else than l had already because l couldnt take care of my responsibilities. l was not expecting this, but it has been a total of 3 days now of complete indifference, so l knew l was certain. l was think back through the last two weeks, and see if l can offer any tips to you guys, because l know how it feels.

Zahara Established Member

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6 days ago you said you still love him and that you are finding it hard to let him go and now indifference? Hmmm..

 

Maybe you're forcing yourself to feel this way to avoid feeling the pain of ending or whatever you felt for him was shallow allowing you to go warped speed to indifference and being completely over him.

jphcbpa Established Member

jphcbpa

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your mind is playing tricks on you. give it time...you might be in denial

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WYSWYG Established Member

WYSWYG

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I don't wanna discourage your progress OP and wanna thank you for sharing the good vibe but never underestimate the power of emotions. Even Alexander the Great apparently was inconsolable, didn't sleep, didn't eat and cried for days over the loss of a close friend.

 

I know we all will reach indifference in time but I honestly think it's very gradual over a long period. I had a BU 3 years ago and became friends again a year later. We both dated other people since. This weekend, I missed her again like day1 of BU. I don't know why, I can't believe it....

bluegreen Established Member

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Please do not take all our efforts time and will to help and make a joke of it.

10 days really I kept coupons and junk mail in my folders longer then this.

How did this post even made past the @

Strength in Healing Established Member

Strength in Healing

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Beware, this won't end well. You aren't over him, or you never cared. You are likely in the shock phase.

 

Is it cruel to say this? Yes, but mostly no. I'm giving you a shield for the barrage of internal attacks you're going to suffer soon.

bluegreen Established Member

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Lord help us all we needed were obvious troll posts to :mad:

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