HarleyBrown2 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Hello all, It's been a long time since I've poured my heart and had help from you to heal my heart... I thought I'd drop by to I've you all an update, show there's light at the end of the tunnel, the heart does heal and boy does it feel good to be loving life again I've been single now for 10 months, some amazing people have come along in my life, but I've been too content being single With regards to my ex, she texts every so often, asking how I am, telling me she had a dream about me, or that she had flash bucks, or 'just checking in, hope you're good' but then 5 mins later sends a 'never mind then' text cos I don't reply! I can officially confirm with experience that NO CONTACT is the way forward, without a doubt! I have also found out in this time, that the person I always thought was too close for friends, they are now dating, infact have been since pretty much straight after our split. Which helps an awful lot because it made me realise I wasn't just paranoid about a fabricated situation... Also the fact she still texts me makes me realise the grass isn't always greener! Anyway I hope you're all getting on well and looking forward to a brighter future without our head f*#k ex's 12
Trovador Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Thanks, man, glad to see you are doing well... And that bit about "too close for friends", so true, so true... yet people still refuse to believe, most of the time there is another man involved...
ahthepain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I am just about to start NC and it seems like a long road ahead. I'm glad you are through it and stronger than ever.
yorkie Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 im 7 months on and im in LC with ex cos of the kids, she has started to be nice the other week she was mad with me and angry so i dont get it i dont even wanna speak with her, we only have contact through text. i dont want her in my life yes she is part of the kids life but not mine! things do get easier but it takes longer i feel when you have to have LC but i spoke with a mate who is single and he is 10 months and its still as hard but you do move on!
mangetout Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Can't wait to get ten months past my BU. Thanks for the inspiring post
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