Isabel1313 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) Long story short, myself and an ex were together for four months, in that four months I became pregnant and lost our baby, this resulted in a year long worth of arguments, family involvement, depression, blaming, hurt and loss. He got engaged to another woman only two months after our miscarriage to someone he had gone to primary school with. I had known him since high school and we hooked up three years after the end of high school. After the bitterness ended we decided to part ways. Within that year he broke up with his new engagement and started a relationship with someone else whom he became engaged with later on. I had not heard from him for two years up until last week where he made apologies to a best friend of mine that he ended up in an argument with over me and our miscarriage. Then he messaged me on Facebook saying that he hoped I was well etc etc. I learnt from a mutual friend that he had ended his second engagement last November. Could someone shed a little light on this and provide me with suggestions of what this is all about? Since we lost baby I know that it near killed him deep down for a fact as it did with me. He was very immature at the time (as I was too at times during this ordeal) and now he is making contact with me after all this time, is there anyone out there who had been through this with an ex partner who came back asking questions? if so then what do you think is behind it? Edited March 31, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Gaeta Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 He only contacted you because of his break up in November. It's typical, especially in men who cannot handle being alone. After a break up they go through the list of women they had in the past and start contacting them. This man put you through hell, looks like he specializes in abandoning women, I hope you are not considering getting back in touch with him. 6
BC1980 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I definitely agree. The timing is what you need to look at. It seems he jumps from one woman to the next, which is a definite red flag. 3
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