the ball is in her court

[joebrown]

i had a massive fight with my girlfriend saturday afternoon. i ended up leaving her apartment and going to mine and cooled down for an hour. i tried to talk to her but she wouldn't have anything to do with it, which just pissed me off more

 

saturday night i texted her asking if she was still mad and that i was over our argument

 

she said well, good for you

 

she then texted me while i was sleeping and said "please, do NOT give up on this"

 

i figured "hmm she must want to work this out"

 

i told her i could come over last night but she said she couldn't because she was going to be with her niece. i apologized again through a text but she was never replying. then i said ignoring the problem won't help ok? and she said "i'm busy"

 

i decided after last night the ball is in her court, if she wants to work it out she will come in to me

 

i put in the effort now its her turn

 

does this sound like a good idea? as it doesnt come off as needy or clingy

[semco]

Read the "Did I seem clingy" thread on this same forum.

[HeartbrokenNewbie]

Wanting to sort an argument is not being clingy x you are fine stop worrying and yes let her come to u now x

[David87]

What was the argument about, did you hurt her feelings? If so apologise again and don't wait for her to contact you.

[PegNosePete]

I would just say OK let me know when you've got time to talk. Then the ball is definitely in her court.

[oz-missy]

What was the context of the argument? Without it, we may not be able to appropriately direct you.

 

If it was something really major, would she see a verbal apology as sufficient? Maybe something bigger is required.

[ExpatInItaly]

Did you create the other "Did I Seem Clingy?" thread? If so, please refer to my answer there. If not, let her come to you now.