Hockey72 Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 My girlfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me almost 3 months ago. She said it was because I was not really compatible with her or treating her the way she wanted to be treated. This literally happened out of nowhere and I was so confused and surprised. A month or so goes by and I beg her to hang out and give me a second chance because I've learned a lot from our first breakup. She turned me down and said that she didn't think hanging out would be a good idea and that she does not miss me. I'm now 5 weeks into absolute no contact. We go to the same school and it is strange because I always catch her sneaking looks at me and staring at me. I feel as if she misses me but she hasn't made any contact. Today I wrote her an apology letter because I never actually truly apologized for the way I treated her and how selfish and immature I was during our relationship. In the Letter, I don't beg or anything but I simply state how I was wrong to treat her badly and I realize now how immature I was. I haven't given her the letter and I'm not sure if I should or not. I really want her back in my life. I miss her like crazy and I feel like I honestly deserve another chance to show her how I've changed. I feel as if she really deserves this apology but if I give it to her will it only push her farther away?
pickflicker Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 She turned you down once, so the next move is up to her.
mangetout Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Your ex has checked out of the relationship. You have already told her that you have changed. Giving her this letter will do nothing. You will have to focus on moving on alone now.
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