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There is this guy at my gym who was interested and like always with me and other guys, I don't look back keep ignoring, so they move on to the next.

 

He does check me out from time to time, sometimes his friend stares at me, but no he is not that interested and this is not a big deal......

 

Anyway, my question is: the other night while I was training he passed me by and of course I was behind him so I was looking his way

He then turned and looked at me and caught me staring at him, I didn't turn around right away & pretended I was looking at something out there

 

Anyway, that brought up the question?

 

Who was really busted in the act of staring

 

Because naturally, he was the one who turned & looked at me

 

I ask my sis, she said both of you, but really?

 

Ps: no that's not the same guy who had his hair cut

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Does this really matter at all though?

 

Lol, it is pretty straightforward...you were looking at him, he turned around to look at you, you pretended you were looking at something else.

 

Over-analysing such trivial things is in my opinion, pointless at best.

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Does this really matter at all though?

 

Lol, it is pretty straightforward...you were looking at him, he turned around to look at you, you pretended you were looking at something else.

 

Over-analysing such trivial things is in my opinion, pointless at best.

 

Yeah, but why not!

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I wonder... If you're obsessing at this level what sort of image you're giving off when you're out and about and around these people who may - or may not - be 'looking'. My advice would be to relax :)

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I wonder... If you're obsessing at this level what sort of image you're giving off when you're out and about and around these people who may - or may not - be 'looking'. My advice would be to relax :)

 

 

Why when I ask a simple question I look like a crazy person in your responses (not you in particular)

 

Almost, everybody is obsessing from the inside ..Rest assured I look cold and indifferent from the outside.

 

 

I try to be nice in my responses to people in this forum, but all I get is this condescending attitude from most of you here......

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Why when I ask a simple question I look like a crazy person in your responses (not you in particular)

 

Almost, everybody is obsessing from the inside ..Rest assured I look cold and indifferent from the outside.

 

 

I try to be nice in my responses to people in this forum, but all I get is this condescending attitude from most of you here......

 

I would say you were both busted! What was your goal? (Sorry, I don't know your history). Are you interested in him? Because then you may want to work on that 'cold and indifferent' thing you got going on. ;)

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Cold and indifferent is a great look if you can pull it off.

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Why when I ask a simple question I look like a crazy person in your responses (not you in particular)

 

Almost, everybody is obsessing from the inside ..Rest assured I look cold and indifferent from the outside.

 

 

I try to be nice in my responses to people in this forum, but all I get is this condescending attitude from most of you here......

 

I didn't mean to be condescending.

 

I genuinely don't think everyone obsesses in this way.

 

I think it would be nicer (for you) if this stuff didn't play on your mind so much. You can obsess and obsess, but you may not get anywhere near the truth and perhaps even end up in the wrong direction. That's why I think it's a waste of your energy. My intentions are good, and with you in mind. Appreciate it may not translate that way :)

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