Author phillymatson Posted March 30, 2014 Author Posted March 30, 2014 so what can i do from now if an argument happens?
ThorntonMelon Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Honestly, you're both just immature and if I were you, I would stop using texts to communicate. Other than "what should I grab at the supermarket" and "what time are dinner reservations". 1
semco Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You're giving her too much power in the relationship. You care too much. Its ok to care but its bad to show it. Ignore her completely for at least a week. Make her be the one thats blowing up your phone begging to talk. When she asks why you ignored her? Say you just wanted to give her some time to cool off since she was obviously so upset. And from now on make sure shes the one chasing you. She should be the one calling, she should be the one texting, she should be the one starting arguments. If you see her flirting and you don't like it? Laugh it off and go flirt with a chick. Don't ever let her see you sweat bro. Keep your composure. I totally second this, wait it out. I always do it this way, if they dont call back or text I move on. If she is openly flirting with other guys when you are around its a red flag anyway.
Author phillymatson Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 would it help ifi lay low and let her come to me? will that make up for it?
ctxinfl Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 1. Your texts weren't good. 2. Her ignoring your requests to talk it out wasn't good. I'd more-or-less stop prodding her and let her come to you.
Author phillymatson Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 1. Your texts weren't good. 2. Her ignoring your requests to talk it out wasn't good. I'd more-or-less stop prodding her and let her come to you. im going to lay off
cruepain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 i'll go the other way and say no. how long have you two been togther? if it's been over a year or so , i don't see it as clingy. you are fighting for the girl you love. whats wrong with that? 1
preraph Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 ^what's wrong with it is she's blocked him. Time to respect her space, don't you think? He should lay off. She'll possibly reconnect, and then he should just apologize for bugging her and drop it.
Stay Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 i'll go the other way and say no. how long have you two been togther? if it's been over a year or so , i don't see it as clingy. you are fighting for the girl you love. whats wrong with that? It's clingy and desperate because he kept bothering her about it when he already told her he wants to talk. He got his point across yet still kept bothering her about it. Then in the end apologized because he didn't get his way and turned the tables around with something that bothered him. Shows weakness in my opinion, just because you've been together for a while doesn't mean it's ok to push her asking for space.
Stay Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 true im sure he was frustrated though..never fun Most arguments in relationships aren't fun but handling it better will help. As much as he doesn't like to do something like wait to talk about it, he will have to learn how to sooner or later or it's not good.
cruepain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 She won't reconnect. She's out looking for a new man and when she finds it, that's it. oh come on...you dont know that....we dont know what the fight was about..shes pissed, upset...she wants a few days to clear her head./...you never know
cruepain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Very unlikely, having the same experiences. I knew I shouldn't have begged but I do and once a man begs, its curtains. If you still don't believe me see how the women responded right her. It's not good. i have begged before and i got the girl to stay
cruepain Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 You either didn't slip up quite like he did, are very good looking or charming, or got very lucky. like i said, we dont know what they argued about.....and who knows..maybe she wasnt replying due to work or something i just dont think it was that bad if he would have been like "if you dont reply we are over" then ys thats bad
Author phillymatson Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 He acted desperate. strike 1 He gave her the power. strike 2 She blocked him on the same way she'd block a stalker. strike 3 you are right. i did...becaus ei lost my cool.... if i lose her i can blame myself..though i have not initiated any conversatin since saturday and she actually sent me a picture through a text today
Author phillymatson Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 seems like she is trying to get me to talk to her...she is pinning pins of mine on pinterest and has sent me thre pictures
smithwilson Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 seems like she is trying to get me to talk to her...she is pinning pins of mine on pinterest and has sent me thre pictures see you laid off an now shes coming 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 first i have to say that you're baaaaad at this stuff (sorry)!!!!! and yeah you were clingy no doubt about that. 1. If she was flirting with a guy how the hell did you make yourself the victim here!!!!!!!!!! really don't get you?? 2. never chase her (especially when you're not the victim) give her time to miss you 3. you should always put yourself in the victim side (just like she did to you even though she's the problem here) !!! 4. know this THE BEST DEFENSE IS ATTACKING ok !!!! 5. If you remain like you r now u will lose here (no woman is attracted to weak man) GHANGE IT ASAP Number 5 is a definite!! Too many girly men in the world these days...
Author phillymatson Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 Number 5 is a definite!! Too many girly men in the world these days... like i said, she has sent e pictures the past two days
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Well don't bitch out now and contact her. Keep up the NC and see what happens. You've gotta make up for lost ground.
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