noob_saibot Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 every weekend she goes out and she wont bring me out with her, she wont bring me around her friends or include me in certain activities. this year is their family outting they do every six years. im starting to wonder if shes even going to invite me. ive been very patient. and i often find my self accidently interrigating her. trying to get the truth out of her. and i know it pisses her off, but god i went throught a night mare with her and now i just want to see some effort here. why are some women so complicated, cant she just stop this all this bs and just make things like they were insteady of digging a deeper hole, how do i get her to realize that shes excluding me, i find when i try and talk about it she gets mad.
David87 Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 So, are you back together or not? I couldn't tell from your post.
DannyCA Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 So, are you back together or not? I couldn't tell from your post. ^This Why don't you straight up ask her why she doesn't invite you out with her? Last time I checked couples usually go out together from time to time right?
David87 Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 ^This Why don't you straight up ask her why she doesn't invite you out with her? Last time I checked couples usually go out together from time to time right? That means they aren't back together, she's keeping him on the back burner.
Author noob_saibot Posted March 30, 2014 Author Posted March 30, 2014 we are getting back together. but i am not sure how serious she is. she just never wants me around only during the week, but on the weekend, she just disappears. i am getting sick of it and everytime i try and talk about it she dodges the question why she wont bring me along, i am pretty sure i know why. i think shes embarassed for what happend and how she treated me and she doesnt k now how to tell people i am back. so its easier for her to just exclude me. i dono, everythings such a mess now
veggirl Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 WHEN are you getting back together? you either ARE together or you AREN'T. it sounds like you aren't and you are her backup. sounds like she treated you badly in the R and is continuing to do so. wow, score. why not leave HER and find a girl who's proud to bring you out.
Author noob_saibot Posted March 30, 2014 Author Posted March 30, 2014 WHEN are you getting back together? you either ARE together or you AREN'T. it sounds like you aren't and you are her backup. sounds like she treated you badly in the R and is continuing to do so. wow, score. why not leave HER and find a girl who's proud to bring you out. because im in major denial. my gf origionally left me for another guy, she and i were so close and then one day she dumped me and i found out she was with someone else the next day, i was heart broke. i stayed their as a piece of trash responding to all her bread crumb texts. and then we got back together, then i found out that she wasnt fully over with the other guy. then she ending things with him for good. and cried her heart out to me about how bad she made a mistake. so i let her come back again. and she assures me that shes just taking things slow with me. but i am so damaged. everything is so bad riight now. raising my family and child n step child, just to be betrayed. its horrible. everything was so good! the whole reason why i got up in the morning and worked hard was for my gf n kids , i was dad n she was mom.and then she just vanishes and comes as she pleases. i dont even know what spawned this change of thought towards me or personality, but now i feel like i am a dog left at home n when i need to be fed she returns, and i am to pathetic to hope the fence and run away. its so unfair how everything we built got broke down and now shes back and has me rapped around her finger. i feel like i am just another guy. i am not special. i wish someone would come save me
faithfully Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 you are causing this pain yourself. You need to save yourself and go NC. Move on to somebody who is not gonna keep you on a back burner. Doesn't sound by your post that you two are together nor she making the effort to want you back. Sounds to me like she using you to get over the guy she originally left you for. Why in gods name would you want to go back to somebody that left you for someone else?? Just move on and find someone that appreciates you and proud to been seen with you 1
David87 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 This will never work, you are her puppy, she sees you when she's lonely. Start NC now and don't look back. She is your priority now,.... You are only an option for her.....
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