heartofgold1 Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 Hello everyone, this is my first post on here so bare with me. I have been seeing this guy casually for over a year now. He was clear from the beginning that it was casual, and never made it seem like it was anything more. For me though, it has always been more. I have a lot of feelings for him, and continue to hold on to "us" because of it. I can honestly say I am in love with him, and I know that I will always love him. I know this is destructive to me though because he will never commit. He goes weeks without talking to me and I allow him to come in and out of my life as he pleases because I want whatever I can get from him. I know deep down I need to move on and let go of the idea that we will ever be more. It's just devastating because I have never felt so strongly for someone in my life. I have tried moving on with other guys, but I just don't feel the connection with them that I do with him. Any advice would be helpful.
Mr Scorpio Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 Whatever "connection" that you feel with this man exists entirely in your head. You are allowing yourself to be used for his pleasure. I hope for your sake that it doesn't become a habit. My advice to you is to not let it become a habit. Otherwise, you may find a long line of men willing to come in and out of your live every now and again for convenience. You are being used.
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