cmack90 Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 We had our first date on Tuesday. We kissed and she expressed to me that she wanted to see me later in the week. So I called yesterday when I get out of class (which was Friday), to try and set something up for the weekend. She didn't answer (which was no surprise), I just assumed she was probably working last night (she is a waitress which is where I asked her out). I didn't leave a voicemail or anything. I figured she would see that I called and text me when she got a chance. It's now the next morning and I never heard anything. I guess I called her at a bad time. Should I try to reach out to her again Sunday evening?
Gaeta Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 Never ever *assume* anything ok! What if she does not have caller ID? Then she knows she missed a call but doesn't know from who! When you call leave a message! Makes you look a lot more serious! or you could send a text saying you called and to get back to you.
Tetley Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 Whoa...easy tiger! Its been less than a day. She was working. She'll probably give you a call back before you get to read these replies. Better yet show her your a man of action who goes after what he wants (by that I mean call her again, not show up at her house in your superman outfit and a bottle of KY). I second what Gaeta said: leave a message next time.
MidwestUSA Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 I never return calls if a message wasn't left. I simply assume I was butt dialed. Really, how difficult would it have been to leave a message? You can write this one off; you waited too long after the first date to call anyway. Had you started on Wednesday, you'd have had more chances to actually get thru to her. You were worried about looking desperate?
ExpatInItaly Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 If we'd had one date and then you called but left no message, I'd assume you weren't overly eager. Try calling her again...but leave a message this time.
starrynightz45 Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 Well I think it's a bit too early for you to be worried that anything might be wrong...but just a note for the future. If you want to see her on the weekend, don't call Friday afternoon to set up a date for that weekend. You had a date Tuesday. Call maybe Wed/Thurs to set something up for the weekend. That way she knows you were thinking of her and that she matters enough that you want to lock her down before she has a chance to make other plans. Waiting until Friday comes off as not too eager to see her/she's an afterthought. Good luck
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