Vickey Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 I am curious have any of you girls, ever been with a guy that got nervous and was unable to 'get it up'? V.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 Yep. It can be an awkward situation for both partners.
Beth Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 Yes. It happens. Try not to make a big deal about it and just go have fun and relax. It's not the end of the world and its not a permanent 'condition' in most cases. Some men will feel even worse if the girl keeps saying "it's okay, I know it happens" a lot. Say it once, blow it off like no big deal, and focus on something else right away. If he can see that its not a critical issue to you, he will be able to relax faster, and so will you. Constant reassurance can have the opposite effect sometimes. And really, its NOT a big deal. There will be other times for sex.
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