masked_man Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 Hey all, just wondering if I can get some feedback here. It is something I myself am all too familiar with, but here goes. A friend of mine had been doing the flirty/chatty thing with a woman for quite awhile. So one day he decided to ask her out. She said yes, but stood him up! Not a word from her about it since. My mate decided that was that, end of story. Sometime later, this woman presumably deciding she had made a mistake tried to "win" him back. The thing she didn't bother acknowledging the fact she'd left him waiting one afternoon at a cafe, and basically tried starting the flirt act again. When my mate decided to keep away, the flirt act became sad wistful looks of regret. Manipulation I guess. Having been through something a little the same myself, I advised him to keep away, as she seemed way too flighty and the type who won't own up to her mistakes. The thing is he's wavering, maybe being taken in by her acting. I think it's a bit pathetic myself, she blows him out and is now trying to crawl back to him. All "players" are in their late 20's btw. Is there any advice anyone has that I can pass on to him to convince him not to waste his time? Cheers!
alphamale Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 Originally posted by masked_man Is there any advice anyone has that I can pass on to him to convince him not to waste his time? Cheers! tell your mate to grow a spine and get some emotional strength. women love to manipulate & play with weak men. they also love to sleep with strong men.
Author masked_man Posted January 30, 2005 Author Posted January 30, 2005 Cheers dude. I doubt he would waste his time actually approaching her. He needs to stop talking and thinking about it though. That's the problem.
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