DJohnson Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 All insight is appreciated. I'm sure others have dealt with this before but please help. I'm 29, she's 24 but I would consider her a bit immature for 24. Been dating almost a year and things have been good most of the time. Know her family and friends well, stayed at each others houses, plenty of dates and intimate contact. She hasn't had many relationships in the past that have been serious and when she has she's been the one pursuing. In this case I pursued her to start. We are in this cycle where we hang out 1-2x weekly for dinner and everything is great..sex..all things a couple would do. Without fail for the past 2 months she will go from being super into it when I'm with her in person to the next few days saying she doesn't know what she wants... I have not come off as needy and when I don't call for a few days it drives her nuts. I can't keep doing this on/off crap. Advice?
Chico333 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Drop the relationship. This is going on after a year long relationship? That's too much time wasted on someone who doesn't know what they want. You're in your prime. Take advantage of it. A 29 year old and an (immature) 24 year old.... she is still young and stringing you along. Doesn't sound like she is the love of your life from reading your post. Don't waste your time and move on.
Sweetnothing Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Do you text her once in a while you're apart? The slightest bit of attention with girls can make a huge difference. I'm not condoning her erratic behavior AT ALL, but women like to hear from their SO more often. Try meeting her halfway. Her demands aren't too difficult, just call her. But make sure she understands that if you comply she can't throw stupid tantrums anymore. You've been with this chick for a year so she can't be all bad. But if you compromise and she still acts like an immature brat then find a real woman who can occupy herself happily while you're busy.
acrosstheuniverse Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 This is a no brainer, drop it. If after a year she doesn't know what she wants, she knows she doesn't want you in any serious, committed capacity. I would never want to be with somebody that didn't know whether they wanted to be with me or not. I'm worth more than that, and so are you.
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