jangofun Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. We are both freshmen attending the same college. The last time we kissed, other then little pecks to say good bye and others of the sort, was during finals week in December. A couple days before that instance I asked her why she never wants to do anything physical anymore and she said that sometimes she just does not feel like it and that she knows she is an awful girlfriend in that are(of course I denied it). There has been a couple times since then where she has let me finger her, but its been a couple months since that has happened too. It wasn't always like this. The first time we hooked up before dating she literally jumped on top of me at a small party of just friends(we were talking alone in a room for a while). Many instances such as that happened before we started dating and the first couple months of the relationship. We both live in dorms so it is hard to get alone time now, but whenever we do and I try to initiate something, whether we have the room to ourselves for the night or just a couple hours during the day, she avoids it at all costs or simply says no. It is not like I try to initiate anything often, maybe once every other week. It is really frustrating because whenever I mention something about it she makes me feel like I'm a bad person for wanting to do stuff with her.
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 This is a huge red flag, she lost interest and I think that she's about to dump you. Be careful.
Gingerlee Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 You two just are not sexually compatible anymore. I'd talk to her about this without the use of guilt tripping and see where the problems lie. Has she got things going on in her life? Is she stressed about anything? It doesn't sound good though, OP.
Gaeta Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 When a woman stops desiring her man it's because her heart has checked out. Gather the little bit of pride you have left and end it. As it stands you are not bf-gf you are just buddies. 2
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 When a woman stops desiring her man it's because her heart has checked out. Gather the little bit of pride you have left and end it. As it stands you are not bf-gf you are just buddies. It's so sad when this happens.....
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