quills82 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I dated this girl for three months, everything was going great but after about 2 months I did not think we had long term potential. Around this time I told her I was going to Hawaii, I asked her to go with me after I told her I was going. She stated she could not afford to go and I am not able to help her financially. She started making these constant comments about my trip that seemed like they aimed at making me feel bad for not going somewhere with her instead. In my mind, after only dating for 2 months a trip like Hawaii is too much. Then she started making general derogatory comments about the way I do things, I'm a scattered brained and she is much more organized. She also alluded to moving in together after one month which freaked me out a little. When we broke up she initiated the conversation saying she thought something was missing from our relationship. She never stated this was over and I kept on asking if that is what she meant so I told her I have not been happy in our relationship for awhile and I think it's best if we end it. Now for some reason I am having a hard time figuring out if I miss her, or I miss the idea of being in a relationship? I feel lonely all the time and miss her texts and phone calls. She defriended me on facebook, I do not think she wants to hear from me again. Can anyone help, how do you figure out if I miss her or the idea of being in a relationship?
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Let's be honest, you miss her, not being in a relationship. After every break up i had i never missed being in a relationship, i've just missed my girl.
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