blue963 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I want to end this and the feelings that are associated with this type of relationship. Worse than I ever could have imagined. Help! I want to go NC tomorrow but I am so weak. So many life issues going on, but I am tired of his self-centeredness which has come to light lately. It is hurting me so much and I dont want this any more.
Grumpybutfun Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Blue, your pain sounds terrible. When something is no longer enriching your life or making you feel safe, you have to let it go. Is there a spiritual guide or friend you could ask to help you with making a plan to keep busy, to end to with AP, and get your mind on other things. Sometimes, in spite of the simplicity of this message, the only way to get over pain is to go right through it, feel it, process it, know it is going to be terrible, and do it anyway. At this point you are miserable anyway, at least after the affair is over you have a future to plan that could have the things you want in it like love and security. Good luck, Grumps 1
Hope Shimmers Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I echo what Grumps said. The sooner you take the initiative to do what you know you need to, the sooner you will be on the other side of it and you will have your life back. There are people here who can support you through it.
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