3j15 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Broke up a week ago, ex dumps me. After we said it was over I went strict NC, its been exactly a week since we talked. I was having a great day at work, busy, hectic, but at the same time enjoying life (not thinking of the ex). Then I check the phone to see missed call from her. My mood took a total 180. Now all i can think about is why did she call? what does she want? My happy mood turned into some depressed loser like I was the first few days of our break up. Why do they do this? I know I shouldnt call back, and I wont. I think I will text back later tonight with something like this: Hey, got your missed call. I respected you by leaving you alone after the break up like you wished. Now leave me alone. Dont call me or text me. I think it is best if we stay apart for now. Take care. Opinions, thoughts? 1
sportzhl24 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Honestly I wouldn't even bother saying that. I know it's tempting to respond but I would just let it go.
Forget About Her Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Honestly I wouldn't even bother saying that. I know it's tempting to respond but I would just let it go. 100% this! Don't even respond bro.
Author 3j15 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 100% this! Don't even respond bro. I know but its soo damn HARD!!!!
Trovador Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Why haven't you blocked her number? I bet on you getting glad when seeing the missed call and I bet on you texting her later... Please, prove me wrong...
Author 3j15 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 To be honest, yes I was happy to see she called. I got dumped, as much as it sucks and I accepted it's over, it is nice to know she is thinking of me. Whether that is for good news (reconciliation) or bad (new guy, she wants yell at me etc.) She still reached out to me. I just wanna know why? To update, I havent contacted her yet. my plan is to stay NC, if she keeps calling and calling, I will text her something to tell her to stop. But I know her, and she has too much pride to keep calling when no one will pick up.
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 It's a good thing that you didn't send that text. If she keeps calling then block her number or change yours.
Koopa Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Why did you break up in the first place? Were you happy with her? If you do get back with her understand she has the pants by showing she can pull the trigger anytime she wants.
guest572 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Keep going strong, if its important she will try again. Try not to let your curiosity win.
Mr.Pine Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Opinions, thoughts? From reading a plethora of posts from dumpees that broke NC to respond to a breadcrumb of the silliness nature, a phone call usually means she found someone new and wants to rub your nose in it in order to elevate her negative worth. Don't be a schmuck. Stay NC. She called, but didn't leave a message. Huge red flag. Only call her or text her back if she utters or types these words: "Baby! I'm so, so sorry. I made a huge mistake. I want to make this work. Let's fix this. Let's get back together!!" Anything less, you are wasting your time and setting yourself up for a world of hurt. Trust me. 3
bluegreen Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Nobody can do to you what you refuse to allow them 2 do. 3
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Nobody can do to you what you refuse to allow them 2 do. Hallelujah.
Chi townD Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Dude, she was pulling on the leash to see if the dog was still there. She dumped you and she knows she hurt you. The one thing that MOST girls can't handle is thinking that there's someone out in the world that hates them or doesn't think they're a nice person. So, she called to check up on you and see where your head was at and if you actually hated her. She called. Okay, but did she leave a voicemail message? NOPE!!!! So, I guess it wasn't that important.
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