Candy_Pants Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 I've found that "boys" think women are arrogant simply because of their beauty. Maybe it's just easier to assume certain things about others. Personally I've never been one to judge a book by its cover, and life has given me beautiful surprises in the form of true friendship from people others might consider "______". I'm a beautiful woman and I've experienced this preconceived notion (as well as others due to my outward appearance), and it used to bother me, now I simply feel pity for them. 2
xxoo Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 Question for the men that assume beautiful women are arrogant: Is this only beautiful single women? What about your friend's beautiful girlfriend or wife? Always arrogant? Have you never gotten to know a beautiful woman who is gracious and caring? When the dating pressure is off, women can be more themselves, and worry less about friendliness and sweetness being interpreted as romantic interest. 1
Radu Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 That's awesome and I'm not being sarcastic. I said most, as in a lot of times. That's why I said to try anyway, if rejected you'll be in the same spot you were before. Meaning you didn't lose anything. Your one of those chicks were the guy might have a shot. But trust, it'll be a lot of rejections before they find someone like you. Which again, doesn't matter. I get rejected all the time and get back up The good thing is that you only need to be lucky once to find the right one. 1
Radu Posted March 30, 2014 Posted March 30, 2014 Question for the men that assume beautiful women are arrogant: Is this only beautiful single women? What about your friend's beautiful girlfriend or wife? Always arrogant? Have you never gotten to know a beautiful woman who is gracious and caring? When the dating pressure is off, women can be more themselves, and worry less about friendliness and sweetness being interpreted as romantic interest. I got to know a few truly beautiful women over the last few yrs [since i've started actually understanding body language], and one of the thing that makes them truly gorgeous is their personality. To get that you either have to observe them, or to talk to them. When you see a truly beautiful woman, it's not just the physical side of her, it's also her soul that shows through her body language [or her momentary state]. That warm smile, the little details that enhance her femininity, the eyes ... everything. It's like everything is in sync with them, their body, their look, their way of being around other ppl. Being rejected by one is not something that should depress you, because you did get to spend some little time in her company and you have proof that someone like this exists. A truly beautiful woman [not just physically] is not arrogant, though many men assume they are based solely on their looks. 4
Johnson1 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) I agree with this. Ironically it is women who see themselves as average that tend to have the worst personalities. They are actually offended that certain men think they have a chance with them. Really hot women who know they are hot tend not to be like that. It depends on the woman and how they're raised by their parents to see the world. Edited March 31, 2014 by Vocals5
Canucklehead Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I got to know a few truly beautiful women over the last few yrs [since i've started actually understanding body language], and one of the thing that makes them truly gorgeous is their personality. To get that you either have to observe them, or to talk to them. When you see a truly beautiful woman, it's not just the physical side of her, it's also her soul that shows through her body language [or her momentary state]. That warm smile, the little details that enhance her femininity, the eyes ... everything. It's like everything is in sync with them, their body, their look, their way of being around other ppl. Being rejected by one is not something that should depress you, because you did get to spend some little time in her company and you have proof that someone like this exists. A truly beautiful woman [not just physically] is not arrogant, though many men assume they are based solely on their looks. I agree with a lot of the comments that Radu expresses here..... Us men, as I am also guilty of this in the past, mistake or misread a womans confidence as arrogance. IMO this occurs more frequently when a mans insecurity is getting the better of him. Conversely, I believe it is insecurity, prejudices, and sense of entitlement that creates arrogance in a woman..... let alone what their physical appearance may be. To me a girl that looks like Adele with a warm, unpretentious, and humble personality becomes sexier than an arrogant Gisele Bundchen type. But, as Radu says, one must engage and communicate with the person to discover
topaMAXX Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Not by any display of behaviour, but do they assume she must be just because she's so beautiful and probably knows it? And if you do think she is arrogant, is that why you don't approach? Cuz you assume arrogance means b*tchy and rude? No. I don't approach because it's too much work to stand out from the tons of other guys trying to get with her. With a very demanding job and some hobbies, I just don't have the time (or interest) to deal with that. 1
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