Move on or fight for her?

[neverhavever]

So I posted a thread a few weeks back about a girl I like who lives far away. Anyway in my last post I said that I dont know how to deal with this girl because I finally have opened up to her that I like her and the thing is mutual but the only issue was that she is leaving in the next couple of months, so we took a pause and both of us couldnt resist and kind of hooked up for a month and just since last week things have changed, the story below.

 

So we have this amazing time together, we spend much time together and things are going really nice, but then she gets really busy with her friends since she's in another country and I barely find the time to be with her recently and I feel like shes away, so when I tell her that I wanna be around her but not to take her away from her friends, she offers to meet the next day and talk (which I knew I screwed things up by even mentioning the whole thing), so I go and she tells me that she is getting too attached and that we are going in a relationship and basically she wants to have fun in her last couple of months and not be in a relationship, which I totally understand but why make me all attached if you didnt want anything from the beginning, right? But anyway we talked it out and decided that we will just stop what we have and it was so hard for me, then the next day she asks me if I will never speak with her again, but then I told her of course I will, and it was hard because what the hell, like I wanna move on since nothing is gonna happen but I still have **** load of feelings for this girl but I am trying to funnel them back in. Anyway She saw me the other day and she texts me saying you gotta take care of yourself as you look tired and kind of serious and all, so we have this weird conversation (texting) and then 2 days passed and nothing, I don't want to text because I wanna see if she even cares one bit for me, my thoughts are making me nuts if shes already moved on or even thinking about me one bit.

 

Honestly I am angry and sad at the same time because first I got attached already and I dont know whether to even talk with her or not (like be a friend) and another thing is I am missing the attention from her since I feel like I am falling for her so in my mind I almost wanna text her every hour but I just stop myself. Please tell me what to do or advice me something that I can actually do if you read all the above.

 

Thanks,

[AntiSocal]

Age? You sound really young. Everyone wants what they can't have. Its natural.

 

But you gotta just move on. There really isn't anything left to fight for. She doesn't feel the same about you.

 

And shes leaving anyway.

[Sweetnothing]

I'm sure she's a catch, but it's not good timing so let it go. She's not the only girl in the world who you'll be compatible with. You're losing sight if the fact that there are plenty of options, you're just not looking because you're fixated on her. It's normal. But save yourself the grief.

[Hello_is_it_me]

Can't worry about the past and if she lead you on or didn't.. that **** doesn't matter and is irrelevant. It's done. She's moving on and so must you. From your post it sounds like she noticed you weren't doing/looking so well so she went no-contact on you. Which, actually shows she cares for you. You're too attached and going NC is probably the best thing for you to get over this.