Krizz Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. Now I feel like I can't live without her. After talking to her for 5 years NONSTOP! Suddenly nothing. I got so used to her that now I don't think I can function. I still love her so much but I respect her decision to walk away and leave her alone. But I feel like I'm slowly dying. She was my first love. Now I don't know how do be without her
Zahara Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 It's going to take time to learn to be without her. I'm sorry for your pain. One day at a time. Try to fill your days so you're not spending the time replaying the pain in your heart and mind. A break-up is like death. You will grieve the loss of her as you would grieve the loss of someone by death. What you are feeling is normal. It's going to be a slow process. Come here and talk. It maybe be good to see a grief counselor since this was a long relationship. 2
bluegreen Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Hon listen up here You feel like you will die but happening and feeling are two different things. Its hurts we all know its hurts like b.... and then some but hurt goes away. People don't die when they get cancer loose children jobs houses husbands wives. Am not making your pain any less then it is am saying you have no clue how strong you are and will be until you need to be strong and being strong is only option. You got up this morning did what you had to do came here YOU STRONG. Now cry be sad eat some junk food all is good you are allowed then do same all over again in morning get up do what you have to do You CAN BE STRONG. One day several weeks from now you will still hurt but much less and you will come here and tell us about it. HUGS
travelbug1996 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT HER. Find a counselor to speak with asap. Talk about it until you get it out your system. A break up is not the end of the world just a reality of life. Rock Steady. 2
Damaged217 Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 We have alllll been there, sweetie. And we have all survived. Feelings are only temporary, just remember that. You have to take things one day at a time. Zahara is right. You have to occupy your time. Of course you are allowed to grieve and feel sorry for yourself but make sure it's only temporary, otherwise you will get sucked into a black hole of depression. The worst thing you can do is be at home alone with your thoughts. Hang out with your friends and family. Do things that make you happy. You will get through this and you WILL be stronger at the end. This is coming from someome who cried herself to sleep almost nightly for an entire year after breaking up with my first love of 4 years. I thought I wouldn't make it, but here I am...surviving and ****. lol. And that guy is nothing but a distant memory to me now. Hang in there.
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