EverLastluv Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 (edited) This may sound really weird. Over the weekend my fiance confess that there is a girl at his work place who has a crush on him ( just because he spoke to her very nice and polite ) also this girl starts following him around showing her tounge etc Yesterday the girl text a pic to him in her underwear show her ass. OMGGGGGG He was not around when I had his phone so I called her back. This girl claims he was flirting with her.I explain to her she took it the wrong way, she said okay and hang up. My fiance did not mentioned the girl has his phone no. I ask him If he gave his phone no out he said no ( its a new ph no and he dont know it yet) he claims his friends may have given it to her. When he first mentioned this story, I questioned it over and over. He finally said that he did talk nice to her to see if he really got it to see if she will fall for him with no intention of doing anything with her. He also said it feels nice to know that a younger girl finds him attractive. The girl is 25 yrears old.... this it crazy. He then started to tell me he loves me with all his heart, cheating on me never cross his mind. All that non sense happen just because his friends was around and it was just a test. Guys what should I think of this? Is he a player? should I believe him? or worry it may happen one day? Edited March 27, 2014 by EverLastluv
d0nnivain Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 She sounds very trashy -- showing her tongue to some man (I assume implying that she would give him oral sex) and sending sexy pictures to her. That's more then harmless flirting. You can't control her behavior but he needs to put a stop to this. If he doesn't tell her flat out no more sexy pictures, you cannot marry this man. Also every phone contains a feature where you can look up your own #. When she asked for his # is he didn't know it, he could have just called her phone & then she would have the # 5
Author EverLastluv Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 He never mentioned it again. The girl seem not to be interested anymore since he told her about the trouble it caused hime with the text. so I would let it go never to mentioned it any more. I know he loves me with all his heart and I love him dearly.
SerCay Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I hate to break this but there is always a story BEFORE a trashy girl like that gets to send underwear pics to someone..... Trust me I know, my ex was like this. He would get a picture from a girl and then be like, no I never gave her hope or anything, she likes me so much that she keeps trying. UHU. I have guy friends and the good ones set their boundaries towards the ladies, so the ladies won't even dare to do such a thing. I find it stupid that he has to see if she will like him blablabla. He might cheat in the future, I see this as a red flag. I'm sorry for being blunt. I just think it's soooo stupid what men and women pull on their partners all the time, only to come up with excuses such as the one your fiance said. ugh. 6
Author EverLastluv Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 I hate to break this but there is always a story BEFORE a trashy girl like that gets to send underwear pics to someone..... Trust me I know, my ex was like this. He would get a picture from a girl and then be like, no I never gave her hope or anything, she likes me so much that she keeps trying. UHU. I have guy friends and the good ones set their boundaries towards the ladies, so the ladies won't even dare to do such a thing. I find it stupid that he has to see if she will like him blablabla. He might cheat in the future, I see this as a red flag. I'm sorry for being blunt. I just think it's soooo stupid what men and women pull on their partners all the time, only to come up with excuses such as the one your fiance said. ugh. Thanks for sharing, I beleive what you are saying. To me this was all a game that was played along with the friends that he hang with for that day only. I know for sure the one friend who encourage that drama is a cheater, ( has a wife and kids and still cheating) The whole thing about the phone no giving out was a total mistake. I feel he was being very honest by letting me know the set day it happened and not knowing there would be a text followed with her pic.
GoreSP Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 This may sound really weird. Over the weekend my fiance confess that there is a girl at his work place who has a crush on him ( just because he spoke to her very nice and polite ) also this girl starts following him around showing her tounge etc Yesterday the girl text a pic to him in her underwear show her ass. OMGGGGGG He was not around when I had his phone so I called her back. This girl claims he was flirting with her.I explain to her she took it the wrong way, she said okay and hang up. My fiance did not mentioned the girl has his phone no. I ask him If he gave his phone no out he said no ( its a new ph no and he dont know it yet) he claims his friends may have given it to her. When he first mentioned this story, I questioned it over and over. He finally said that he did talk nice to her to see if he really got it to see if she will fall for him with no intention of doing anything with her. He also said it feels nice to know that a younger girl finds him attractive. The girl is 25 yrears old.... this it crazy. He then started to tell me he loves me with all his heart, cheating on me never cross his mind. All that non sense happen just because his friends was around and it was just a test. Guys what should I think of this? Is he a player? should I believe him? or worry it may happen one day? Sorry hun but your fiancé is a douchebag... Poor girl. 2
Author EverLastluv Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 yes, he is an A** to think he can play that off with his friends. That is a total disrespect to me. I sure had a realy hard talk with him and Im pretty sure he would never pull a stupid stunt like that anymore.
Arieswoman Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 EverLastLuv, I don't like the sound of this at all. You can't control her behavior but he needs to put a stop to this. If he doesn't tell her flat out no more sexy pictures, you cannot marry this man. ^^^^^ Is good advice by d0nnivain Please do not marry this man until you are sure that he can be trusted. 3
Author EverLastluv Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 EverLastLuv, I don't like the sound of this at all. ^^^^^ Is good advice by d0nnivain Please do not marry this man until you are sure that he can be trusted. I had a talk with his friend who gave his ph# out. He said they were playing around and give out the no. stupidly! MY fiance did handle the matter as the woman never call/text since that day. He also claims he saw her at the work site but did not have any comunication with her. Thanks for your advise Im pretty sure its all cleared up as we are planning our wedding now.
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