tjhunt37 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 So I met this girl through a friend on a night out she was pretty much a perfect 10 who had half of the city hitting on her, she wanted to take down my number etc, anyway that night I had slept with her as she asked me to stay at her place, but way to drunk to do anything and I fell asleep pretty much holding her in my arms so I know theres some attraction Anyway I texted her the next day had a few conversation by text then asked her out, she told me she just got out of a relationship a few months ago but she wants us to hang out first and to be friends first and wants to get to know me without any pressure because she told me that she is in the mind frame that all guys are evil after her last breakup, I will be hanging out with her this sunday without the whole date seen thing first, I'll be using kino and try to make her laugh etc, should I ask her out after that or keep hanging out with her for a while and then ask her out? Does this mean she want to take things slowly?
David87 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Does this mean she want to take things slowly? No, this means that she keeps you around in case she can't find someone better. This also means she has options and unfortunately my friend you're one of them.
Gaeta Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 She is not over her ex and what happened with him. Her heart is not available but would welcome some company. When she is ready to re-invest herself though it doesn't mean it will be with you. Last time I told a man I was not ready for a relationship it was because I was still hoping ex would show up on his white horse and him and I would ride together toward the sunset. If you still want to give it a try then forget about asking her on a real date and just hang out with her. Any move you would make toward something a little more serious will have her bring her walls up.
d0nnivain Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 It's hard to tell what she wants but I too tend toward the idea that she wants a warm body & you're convenient. Don't give her your heart but stick around for a while to see if this plays out in your favor.
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