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It's sad that girls are judged by how many male friends they have or have not

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David87 Established Member

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What's wrong in remaining single!

 

There's nothing wrong about being single. It's just that I find it weird to have so many male friends and no boyfriend.

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No

I'm only surprised.

Plus annoyed, now every guy speaks to me I think of him badly.

 

Because of your negativity. You make the world so bleak.

 

Not you in particular, but I mean you who condemn such relationships.

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Why haven't you settle down yet?

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David87 Established Member

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No

I'm only surprised.

Plus annoyed, now every guy speaks to me I think of him badly.

 

Because of your negativity. You make the world so bleak.

 

Not you in particular, but I mean you who condemn such relationships.

 

I don't condemn them, it's just that I've never had one :) And I'm not negative at all I don't know where you got that impression. Anyway ((((hugs))))

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Why haven't you settle down yet?

 

Because I haven't found a girl that I can see myself with for the rest of my life. And It's ok, I've come to the conclusion that it may never happen, probably, but I never quit. I go on dates very often.

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Because I haven't found a girl that I can see myself with for the rest of my life. And It's ok, I've come to the conclusion that it may never happen, probably, but I never quit. I go on dates very often.

 

Rubbish, of course it would. You just need to adjust your picker a bit...go for interesting, quirky girls that want monogamy.

 

Less picking with your pecker, and more your brain, ok? :D

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Rubbish, of course it would. You just need to adjust your picker a bit...go for interesting, quirky girls that want monogamy.

 

Less picking with your pecker, and more your brain, ok? :D

 

You're always right Pick and you know that you're special to me :D

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I don't condemn them, it's just that I've never had one :) And I'm not negative at all I don't know where you got that impression. Anyway ((((hugs))))

 

I said not you in particular .....

 

 

I can't hug you back......

 

While I innocently hug you virtually, you might have vivid fantasies about me and the hello kitty in my profile picture ..... :)

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I said not you in particular .....

 

 

I can't hug you back......

 

While I innocently hug you virtually, you might have vivid fantasies about me and the hello kitty in my profile picture ..... :)

 

You obviously don't know me that well lol . What kind of weirdo do you think I am ? :)

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I disagree with this.

 

I have female friends who are still highly regarded despite being friends with me and some other male friends.

Aren't you sleeping with a girl who used to be your "friend"? :p

 

I have mostly female friends and it would be incredibly dishonest to say there isn't some level of sexual vibe between me and them. It's really a lose lose situation for a potential suitor for a female with male friends. Either A) She also has some kind of sexual vibe going with her male friends, which means shes purposefully hanging around dudes she has a sexual vibe with, which never leads to good things for the boyfriend, or B) They genuinely don't want her, and most guys don't really want a girl that no other guy wants.

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You obviously don't know me that well lol . What kind of weirdo do you think I am ? :)

 

Oh don't get me wrong. This is your nature.

 

We went over this me and Kalyan and this is obviously the reality!

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You're always right Pick and you know that you're special to me :D

 

Thanks luv.

 

You just have to think about what you want. Make a list if it helps. The first draft can be as silly you like, but as you date, keep it in the back of your mind, and look for the really important qualities in the women you go out with.

 

And remember, getting smashed and having a threesome with them isn't a great way to assess longevity. That's just for fun. :laugh:

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Thanks luv.

 

You just have to think about what you want. Make a list if it helps. The first draft can be as silly you like, but as you date, keep it in the back of your mind, and look for the really important qualities in the women you go out with.

 

And remember, getting smashed and having a threesome with them isn't a great way to assess longevity. That's just for fun. :laugh:

 

Well, if he wanted to settle down, he would have.

But he wants to stay single, at least I admit that?

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Thanks luv.

 

You just have to think about what you want. Make a list if it helps. The first draft can be as silly you like, but as you date, keep it in the back of your mind, and look for the really important qualities in the women you go out with.

 

And remember, getting smashed and having a threesome with them isn't a great way to assess longevity. That's just for fun. :laugh:

 

To my surprise that girl did cal me sunday and invited me to coffee, but it turns out that I don't like her that much. Dont ge't me wrong, I mean shes a perfect 9.5 lol :)) but I don't know the spark faded away. I'm thinking about dating her or not......

 

To Noproblem, it's perfectly normal to have male friends, there's nothing wrong with that.

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To my surprise that girl did cal me sunday and invited me to coffee, but it turns out that I don't like her that much. Dont ge't me wrong, I mean shes a perfect 9.5 lol :)) but I don't know the spark faded away. I'm thinking about dating her or not......

 

To Noproblem, it's perfectly normal to have male friends, there's nothing wrong with that.

 

Thanx for your approval :)

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David87 Established Member

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Thanx for your approval :)

 

I just love your sarcasm.

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David I don't think it's that strange. I have had a lot of female friends over the years and this is my first serious relationship ... well first ever relationship actually.

 

It happens. .. It might be rare, but not as rare as you think.

 

You said that your current girlfriend was your friend first right? Don't answer because I know the answer( I read all of your threads )

 

When you were platonic friends tell me that you never thought about getting in her pants and be honest about that.

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Aren't you sleeping with a girl who used to be your "friend"? :p

 

I have mostly female friends and it would be incredibly dishonest to say there isn't some level of sexual vibe between me and them. It's really a lose lose situation for a potential suitor for a female with male friends. Either A) She also has some kind of sexual vibe going with her male friends, which means shes purposefully hanging around dudes she has a sexual vibe with, which never leads to good things for the boyfriend, or B) They genuinely don't want her, and most guys don't really want a girl that no other guy wants.

 

THANK YOU, point made.

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So my male friend has a fantasy of sleeping with me ! Surprise surprise!he probably wants to sleep with half of the girls in the area! Not my fault!

If you were my girlfriend, would you want me to spend time alone with a girl whom you know wants to sleep with me?

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You said that your current girlfriend was your friend first right? Don't answer because I know the answer( I read all of your threads )

 

When you were platonic friends tell me that you never thought about getting in her pants and be honest about that.

 

Sure.

 

I fantasised about her almost every single day.

 

Does it make a difference? She made the first move. When we first met she had a boyfriend and I respected that. When she dumped him I didn't go for her because I thought she was way out of my league. Turns out she didn't think so lol.

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If you were my girlfriend, would you want me to spend time alone with a girl whom you know wants to sleep with me?

 

Most men can control themselves, brohemian.

 

I wanted to sleep with my girlfriend the entire time we were platonic friends but I never made a single move. She signaled interest first.

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Sure.

 

I fantasised about her almost every single day.

 

Does it make a difference? She made the first move. When we first met she had a boyfriend and I respected that. When she dumped him I didn't go for her because I thought she was way out of my league. Turns out she didn't think so lol.

 

It makes a huge difference because it proves my point.

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Most men can control themselves, brohemian.

 

I wanted to sleep with my girlfriend the entire time we were platonic friends but I never made a single move. She signaled interest first.

What if she had made that move, when she still had a boyfriend?

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Most men can control themselves, brohemian.

 

I wanted to sleep with my girlfriend the entire time we were platonic friends but I never made a single move. She signaled interest first.

 

It doesn't matter if you made a move or not, because you were already fantasising about her and wanted to be more than platonic friends.

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What if she had made that move, when she still had a boyfriend?

 

Then she would have been a Ho and I would have rejected her. No matter how hot and sweet a girl is I don't want to be with her if she is a cheating Ho.

 

Luckily she didn't make a move while she had a boyfriend and she isn't a Ho :)

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