Alfie Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Hi all, hoping to get some help here about this guy i met at work a few months ago. when we first started hanging out we agreed that yes we like each other but we just got out serious relationship and didn't want 2 get into anything at the time being. In the beginning I also told him although he wasn't my type i did like him and I enjoyed his company.anyways we started to hang out more and more, and he never even tried to initiatesex, he said we had a good thing going and he didn't want sex to ruin it. Eventually we did sleep together it was amazing every time. However after a while i sensed him pulling away, and his explanation was that he has started to like me too much and he didn't want get hurt again what he has recently. We both made it clear that we are not exclusive even though we are not sleeping on spending time with anyone else. He says that hes ok with me dating other people only bc he cant give me the relationship i want and its selfish to hold me back. Says he needs to work on himself snd being a good dad. But i can tell how bad,it bothers him when i go on dates or talk to other giys at work. I am hurt and confused bc,some days i sense he is crazy about me, and other days he is distant. Around his friends he is all about me, very attentive, a gentleman. When we are alone, he loves to hold me and always askd me to stay the night , whether or not sex is involved. Lately hes been throwing jabs aboit me hooking up with other men, when he knows foe a fact i am not sleeping with anyome else. Is he saying these things bc he is hooking up with someone else or is it just his insecurity talking. He keeps in touch daily, but doesnt ask to see eachother anymore. Now, i would tell a girl in my situation to run fast, that hes not that into her or just using her. But i honestly think he does like me, maybe he is just emotionally unavailable. At first he kept saying that he knows,hes not good enough for me after hearing about my ex, could that be holding him back. Just looking for some feedback. Thanks in advance.
David87 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 You're right, run away fast. He's not ready for a relationship and I don't think you are either. This is just a simple case of FWB.
Gaeta Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 So what he likes you? A man liking you is not good enough to let him be in your life. There are a lot of people out there that likes and loves in a very destructive way. It was good while it lasted now it's over. You knew what you were getting into at the beginning, he said you were not going to collect a relationship with him, that's exactly what's happening.
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