Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I found it. http://www.hollywoodgravehunter.com/site/images/lpage.jpg LMAO I like you man, but not in a gay way. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It was 1:30am, I had to be at work at 7. I'm already screwed at work tomorrow, not to mention I'm regretting the whole thing. I'm not trying to make it any worse. I need sleep, I'm not one those people that can sleep 4 hours and be fine. I wanted to get to bed ASAP I wasn't about to spend another 30 mins chit chatting. Now really think about what you said. As soon as I get dressed "I have to work early tomorrow, bye" That's some cold s**t, a lot worse than "you need to clean this place up" I'm not that cold. Think about realistic mannerism. Yeah it was rude for me to tell her that, but I can live with that, no big deal. Nothing wrong with saying "Hey, I had a great time but I'm already barely gonna get sleep tonight, I really need to be heading home." Hell, it was the truth anyway. I wouldn't be offended by that, sure maybe some women would, but I cannot in any way imagine that being a worse alternative than picking a fight and basically calling someone a disgusting pig. Even if you thought it. To be honest, if you'd like to keep having casual hookups (even if just occasionally) you really need to work out a decent exit strategy because I imagine even if her apartment was spotless you probably weren't going to want to stay the night. 1
Author jay1983 Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 Nothing wrong with saying "Hey, I had a great time but I'm already barely gonna get sleep tonight, I really need to be heading home." Hell, it was the truth anyway. I wouldn't be offended by that, sure maybe some women would, but I cannot in any way imagine that being a worse alternative than picking a fight and basically calling someone a disgusting pig. Even if you thought it. To be honest, if you'd like to keep having casual hookups (even if just occasionally) you really need to work out a decent exit strategy because I imagine even if her apartment was spotless you probably weren't going to want to stay the night. Ok maybe your right, sorry I'm not a pro with exit strategies. This isn't the first, other times I'd chill there for another half hour or so before saying "Hey I've gotta work in the morning, call you tomorrow" that's the right feel to me. It's just that night, that situation I knew I wasn't gonna wanna see her again and it wasn't cause of her looks. 1
melissacus Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 This is my first post on this site and I just so happen to come upon an incredibly amusing topic! I just want to start with this: don't text or call her back. She doesn't care either way. And if she does, A) it will last for a total of three days and B) it will be because her ego is bruised, not because Prince Charming isn't into her. I'm a 25 year old female. I had my period of time where I was out a lot and hooking up with guys simply because I found them incredibly attractive and I could. I went through my "slutty" stage (since everyone on here is insistent on using that term), but I'm not a "slut". Damn, I hate that word. You sleeping with a relatively attractive female in a drunken state and not wanting to call her back doesn't make you a douche. Who the hell doesn't do that these days?? The only thing that could be making you seem like a douche is the way you're talking about this woman to the public. Whether we know her or not, it's very disrespectful to slander a person the way you are slandering her. Why not just say "I had a one night stand with this girl I'm not into. Am I wrong if I don't text/call her back?" Instead you completely bashed her character and choice (lack thereof) in cleanliness. Get to the point, Lad! Keep the ****-talking to a minimum or else you won't be taken seriously. And I leave with this: if she invited you over on the first night of meeting you then took her home to her messy-ass apartment, she doesn't care if she hears from you again or not. She didn't give you head? She didn't even keep the lights on? She wasn't trying to impress you. And who knows, maybe her text saying "Hope to see you again", was just her way of letting YOU down easy. 3
Author jay1983 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 maybe her text saying "Hope to see you again", was just her way of letting YOU down easy. LMAO Okay that works for me.
Author jay1983 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 I had my period of time where I was out a lot and hooking up with guys simply because I found them incredibly attractive and I could. I went through my "slutty" stage (since everyone on here is insistent on using that term), but I'm not a "slut". Damn, You and everybody else are getting so caught up in what I think of her and what I called her, that your missing the point. I don't have a problem with you doing you, it's your business. What it's about is "has this happened to any of you girls and then you wondered why?" Well here are some reasons this happened to her. Like the guy said the whole thing was a train wreak. I don't why it happened to other girls it happened to, but here's why it happened to her. These are the things I didn't like. All I did was paint a detailed picture. If it wasn't for all that s**t I described, I probably would have called her, dated her, became friends, IDK. If this happened to you, this could be one of reasons why. But you can do whatever makes you happy, your not hurting anybody, just making guys happy.
melissacus Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 You and everybody else are getting so caught up in what I think of her and what I called her, that your missing the point. I don't have a problem with you doing you, it's your business. What it's about is "has this happened to any of you girls and then you wondered why?" Well here are some reasons this happened to her. Like the guy said the whole thing was a train wreak. I don't why it happened to other girls it happened to, but here's why it happened to her. These are the things I didn't like. All I did was paint a detailed picture. If it wasn't for all that s**t I described, I probably would have called her, dated her, became friends, IDK. If this happened to you, this could be one of reasons why. But you can do whatever makes you happy, your not hurting anybody, just making guys happy. Hm, I don't think I missed the point. I thought the point was your title: "Had a one night stand, didn't call her back. Am I wrong?" I thought that was the purpose of your topic, not to inform all of us ever-so curious girls why guys don't call us back once WE'VE decided to let you sleep with us. *Tear* News flash, men: females don't care about these types of things as much as you think we do. If the whole thing was a train wreck, it's because she didn't care if it went smoothly. Otherwise, I'm sure things would have mapped out completely different. Females are pretty smart, ya know? To answer your question, no, "this" has never happened to me. I've never slept with a guy for one night and then not hear from him again. But that's because I've always put some kind of effort into the interaction because I was either incredibly attracted to him or at least liked him as a person. I was interested in having and providing a good time. I cared how the situation played out. That's why I'm saying to not feel bad about not texting her back, because by the sounds of how the night panned out, she didn't care about giving you a good time and it's safe to say she was just craving some Dee Eye See Kay. 1
mortensorchid Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 You knew before you did the deed that you weren't going to see her again after that night. As for calling her back, don't bother. You would be further revolted by her if you did at a later date. Honestly, unless others somehow knew that you had done what you did, why would you even share it? It's kind of embarrassing really. Years ago when I was in my wilder days, I spent a lost weekend with this guy. I knew when I got to his place that I wasn't going to see him again after that weekend, but hey, I guess I was lonely or something. Also before I stopped partying so hard and life is not about getting fall down, stupid drunk and being insane and I thought it was cool to be a wild child. I'd say to my 24 year old self "Keep your panties on!". Ha ha ha ... 1
bluegreen Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Am really hoping this is April thing Joke. She is slob obviously could not be easier if she tried when drunk and you worry about not calling her. Oh not to mention even seeing all this you went trough it anyway
Author jay1983 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Hm, I don't think I missed the point. I thought the point was your title: "Had a one night stand, didn't call her back. Am I wrong?" I thought that was the purpose of your topic, not to inform all of us ever-so curious girls why guys don't call us back once WE'VE decided to let you sleep with us. *Tear* News flash, men: females don't care about these types of things as much as you think we do. If the whole thing was a train wreck, it's because she didn't care if it went smoothly. Otherwise, I'm sure things would have mapped out completely different. Females are pretty smart, ya know? To answer your question, no, "this" has never happened to me. I've never slept with a guy for one night and then not hear from him again. But that's because I've always put some kind of effort into the interaction because I was either incredibly attracted to him or at least liked him as a person. I was interested in having and providing a good time. I cared how the situation played out. That's why I'm saying to not feel bad about not texting her back, because by the sounds of how the night panned out, she didn't care about giving you a good time and it's safe to say she was just craving some Dee Eye See Kay. I still think your just taking a shot at me, cause I rub the wrong way. But your point is understood.
Author jay1983 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 You knew before you did the deed that you weren't going to see her again after that night. ... No that wasn't going through my head when I meet with her. We were just drinking, watching the game and blabbering. I get really into my football, and rooting, screaming, getting pissed when they F up. I wasn't running any kind game. When she asked if I wanted to go to her apt, I was worried about sleeping with her, not thinking at all about the future. Now when I got there, I was like Holly ****, I'm not feeling this. I don't know if I should go through with this, crap I want to sleep with her but this is F ed up. Yes it's embarrassing, I decided share the truth. I wish we had more of that on here. This is cyber world, where you share the truth if you want, but nobody seems to want to hear that.
Author jay1983 Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 Am really hoping this is April thing Joke. She is slob obviously could not be easier if she tried when drunk and you worry about not calling her. Oh not to mention even seeing all this you went trough it anyway Sadly it's not a joke, this isn't fabricated. I felt I was right in not calling her and not being interested, but some my coworkers disagreed (they were women) Just trying to get opinions, what do y'all think? But rather then see it my way, or say "hey I think your wrong cause so and so" people would rather get on here and blast me.
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