Babolat Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Should you feel bad about not calling her back? Not at all. About having no standards in regards to where you insert your penis? Yes. Bingo, well said, same thing I thought as I read his post. He is "blaming" her, for what? I think she knew what she was doing, too.
Babolat Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You say that, but when you drunk and a skinny big breasted girl starts kissing on you, It doesn't always pay out as it should. Google the words "self control". Enjoy your reading. 2
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I think there's almost the presumption here that while sex means nothing to the guy, the woman might be devastated or waiting for her Prince to call. Chances are she couldn't care less about you, and you don't have to let her down easy simply because that's the chivalrous thing to do. What are the odds that a drunken player who'll bang anything was a great lover? I got 2 text messages from her (did you read the thread?) One said "sorry bout last night, I was drunk" the other said "I hope I see you again" I see so many threads made by women about why guys don't have any curtsey, why not just tell them that they don't want to see them. So I'm explaining this from my POV.
Babolat Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 At this point he can either call her back fake interest with her and make the situation worse or he can call her back tell her why he wont see her again then get into an argument and make the situation worse. He is doing the right thing. I don't necessarily disagree. Silence itself can deliver a message.
StanMusial Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/371521-living-arrangement-deal-breakers#post4578888 I was stone cold sober though. It was like walking through a horror movie.
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I do think you should at least tell her something like, "Its cool, I was drunk too. Things happen. That said, I think youre a cool girl, and we should just be friends for now." That way your name doesnt get dragged through the mud around the group. Plus you wanna minimize awkwardness whenever you see her around again. Dude I just read your thread about the girl from tinder. Really, you give me this advice after that. That's okay man, I'll stick to doing it my way. Thanks anyway
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/371521-living-arrangement-deal-breakers#post4578888 I was stone cold sober though. It was like walking through a horror movie. I don't blame you, I regret not going home and just beating off
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Google the words "self control". Enjoy your reading. Alcohol is a hell of a drug
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Err... no. You have it wrong. I've done the "right, gotta go, early day tomorrow" thing plenty a time. There is nothing wrong with that. Picking a fight to leave? Yeah, that's just douchy! Let's agree to disagree
Babolat Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Alcohol is a hell of a drug Good thing the NFL season is over, you no longer have to worry about it, now. Bad alcohol, bad alochol..how dare you. I think we'd all be curious to hear what you do, or did, and what the outcome was/is....Yawn.....
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Good thing the NFL season is over, you no longer have to worry about it, now. Bad alcohol, bad alochol..how dare you. I think we'd all be curious to hear what you do, or did, and what the outcome was/is....Yawn..... How would you like me to respond to that, do you want me to insult you back? This is a real life situation. I get on here, tell the truth and your basically like "no no no this type of thing is no good, you don't need to make mistakes, alcohol makes no difference, do this, do that" Is this how you really are, or are just tryin to look good on here? Now if we were in person, like in your face, I'd laugh at you and tell you I don't give a F what you think. But I doubt you'd say that in person. I bet your more comfortable hiding behind your little bunny avatar. So I've got a solution, keep your opinion to yourself, don't post on my s**t and I won't post on yours.
Babolat Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) How would you like me to respond to that, do you want me to insult you back? This is a real life situation. I get on here, tell the truth and your basically like "no no no this type of thing is no good, you don't need to make mistakes, alcohol makes no difference, do this, do that" Is this how you really are, or are just tryin to look good on here? Now if we were in person, like in your face, I'd laugh at you and tell you I don't give a F what you think. But I doubt you'd say that in person. I bet your more comfortable hiding behind your little bunny avatar. So I've got a solution, keep your opinion to yourself, don't post on my s**t and I won't post on yours. I was not insulting you. I was pointing to what I see as an excuse. I don't know you. You are words on a screen, that's it. I would act the same, in person. With, or without, alcohol. And I would make the same, choices. I would not let myself get so drunk that I could not make good choces. That, would be my choice, to not get drunk then blame. I have no desire to "look good". I have taking my hits on here many times. Go read some of my posts if you want to be entertained, and judge. Your alcohol "excuse" is just that, an excuse. You have little to no self control and chose to "blame" her (really, this is about how clean she is, or is not?) and "blame" alcohol now. You came to a public forum seeking advise, seeking opinions, and you got them. For some reason you seem to be "having fun" now. Your, choice. And, you are welcome to Reply to any of my threads; that's why we all come here. Edited March 31, 2014 by Babolat
TimmyTuckerR Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) Maybe alcohol should also be an acceptable excuse in a court for drunk driving and killing someone. Can you imagine how would that person's family would react to the ''Well I was drunk and didn't notice him/her, after all alcohol is a hell of a drug'' sentence. Edited March 31, 2014 by TimmyTuckerR 1
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I was not insulting you. I was pointing to what I see as an excuse. I don't know you. You are words on a screen, that's it. I would act the same, in person. With, or without, alcohol. And I would make the same, choices. I would not let myself get so drunk that I could not make good choces. That, would be my choice, to not get drunk then blame. I have no desire to "look good". I have taking my hits on here many times. Go read some of my posts if you want to be entertained, and judge. Your alcohol "excuse" is just that, an excuse. You have little to no self control and chose to "blame" her (really, this is about how clean she is, or is not?) and "blame" alcohol now. You came to a public forum seeking advise, seeking opinions, and you got them. For some reason you seem to be "having fun" now. Your, choice. And, you are welcome to Reply to any of my threads; that's why we all come here. I reacted that way because of the.... yawn. I took it in a "I wonder what will happen to you......Who cares!" kind of since. So I'm like, why did he post that? My bad if I was wrong, but I've noticed some people only leave negative comments (it's always the same people too, I won't say any names) and the moderators can't do anything about it. They just tell you ignore those people.
contact1 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 This thread makes me want to play "Blame is on the Alcohol" by Jamie Foxx 1
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Maybe alcohol should also be an acceptable excuse in a court for drunk driving and killing someone. Can you imagine how would that person's family would react to the ''Well I was drunk and didn't notice him/her, after all alcohol is a hell of a drug'' sentence. Hang on man, that's not credible. When I'm drunk, yes I do have self control, I'm just more passive about things. I get in a good mood, I also get a little horny, and I'm not as anal about things. For example, girls with drawn on eyebrows. I don't like that, when I see that I'm like "that's looks really bad, why does she do that" 4 beers and "you know what, that doesn't really bother me" Nobody got killed, I slept with some girl (a really dirty girl), that's it. On a side note I think it has a counter effect on some people. How many people you know that only get into fights when their drunk? You can't deny that alcohol doesn't alter personalities a little bit.
StanMusial Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Yeah it's called "beer goggles". Her apartment probably looked like the Taj Mahal until the buzz wore off, then suddenly it looked like the set of Sanford & Son. And the girl looked like Aunt Esther. You can only blame the alcohol a little bit but then own up and say ultimately it was your fault. At least that's what I've done in the past. Plenty of times. 1
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 And the girl looked like Aunt Esther. She looked decent, not bad at all. 1
kaylan Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Threads like this make me face palm at how desperate my gender can be just to get some sex. 1
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I've got a pic with her if you guys want to see and if I can figure out how to upload pics lol
TimmyTuckerR Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Nobody got killed, I slept with some girl (a really dirty girl), that's it.Not to sound like an old guy from the 60's, which I'm not (27 here) but if I wanted to have a ONS, I would at least do it with a neat and cleaned girl or with a pretty porn star, not go so low and just have sex with any woman even if she were literally found in a garbage bin just to have sex. Honestly, I'd rather masturbate than have sex with the girl you have just described in your thread. 1
MidwestUSA Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I've got a pic with her if you guys want to see and if I can figure out how to upload pics lol That's really inappropriate. Please don't. You probably don't have that privilege anyway. 4
TimmyTuckerR Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I've got a pic with her if you guys want to see and if I can figure out how to upload pics lolNo thanks.
StanMusial Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I found it. http://www.hollywoodgravehunter.com/site/images/lpage.jpg 2
Author jay1983 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Not to sound like an old guy from the 60's, which I'm not (27 here) but if I wanted to have a ONS, I would at least do it with a neat and cleaned girl or with a pretty porn star, not go so low and just have sex with any woman even if she were literally found in a garbage bin just to have sex. Honestly, I'd rather masturbate than have sex with the girl you have just described in your thread. A porn star would gross me out more. At least I don't know what this girl's been up to. Don't get me wrong I watch porn, but I wouldn't actually touch one of those chicks. I think I'm more comfortable whacking off behind this screen.
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