Hello_is_it_me Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I would be grossed out. Don't want to know or think about what anyone masturbates to. I guess my question is what do you gain by telling her? I don't see any benefit to you in sharing this info, but you are taking the risk of her not liking it, as well being disappointed if she believed you were saving her pics for a more innocent reason, like a scrapbook. I'd just let it go and wouldn't say anything. Grossed out?? It's just a pretty normal sex act. Shoot. I once dated a chick that got turned on by watching me masturbate to porn lmao! She's was a complete whackjob but man do i miss her in the sack..!
Do_The_Herp Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Maybe "gross" is the wrong word. But I don't know... I don't see it the way some others do. Keeping a jerk-off folder of pics of me just isn't flattering to me. I wouldn't feel flattered. I suppose, but maybe it's merely how you look at it. Let's say that the guy's away for work or whatever the reason.. At least he can fantasize about a real person, with a real personality that he knows and loves.. I don't see the point anyway, if I'm not away on a business trip or whatever. I have the person within an arm's reach to be affectionate with.. (Doesn't necessarily have to be in a sexual manner, mind you)
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 I used these pics before we were together though.... I haven't used them since we started dating. I suppose, but maybe it's merely how you look at it. Let's say that the guy's away for work or whatever the reason.. At least he can fantasize about a real person, with a real personality that he knows and loves.. I don't see the point anyway, if I'm not away on a business trip or whatever. I have the person within an arm's reach to be affectionate with.. (Doesn't necessarily have to be in a sexual manner, mind you)
Phantom888 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Everyone is different, but I know my woman would be HAPPY that I masturbate with her picture. In fact, she sent me a selfie of her boobs just so I can masturbate in the office bathroom. But I don't do it though 2
Do_The_Herp Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I used these pics before we were together though.... I haven't used them since we started dating. Well, she obviously didn't mind, did she? I still don't find it to be that bad.. If you really liked her at that point, who really cares? As I said, it's pretty harmless in and of itself, regardless of how "creepy" some may perceive it to be.. But me personally, I would've found it too weird for myself that I'm hanging out with someone who is unaware of the fact that I beat my meat to pictures of them hanging out with me.. So I can see how it is a bit awkward since she might not have been into you in a sexual way, but hey, she liked you as more than a friend anyway, so who cares? 1
Do_The_Herp Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Everyone is different, but I know my woman would be HAPPY that I masturbate with her picture. In fact, she sent me a selfie of her boobs just so I can masturbate in the office bathroom. But I don't do it though Funny you should say that, I'm accessing the boards via my office's bathroom stall with my iphone! Would you mind sending me the picture? 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 True, she didn't mind at all. She actually thought it was cute. Based on how well I know her I thought there would be about a 70% chance of her reacting like this, but as I say, you can never tell with women. While I was doing this I obviously wouldn't have mentioned it and tried not to show any outward signs that I was interested in her. Although, quite often during the friend period she used to sit close to me, rub my arm, hug me for a long time, etc. I don't know if she suspected I was into her or not. She has asked me since we have started dating why I didn't ask her out, so maybe she did know. Well, she obviously didn't mind, did she? I still don't find it to be that bad.. If you really liked her at that point, who really cares? As I said, it's pretty harmless in and of itself, regardless of how "creepy" some may perceive it to be.. But me personally, I would've found it too weird for myself that I'm hanging out with someone who is unaware of the fact that I beat my meat to pictures of them hanging out with me.. So I can see how it is a bit awkward since she might not have been into you in a sexual way, but hey, she liked you as more than a friend anyway, so who cares?
oldshirt Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Let's throw this open to guys as well... If your SO told you they had pictures of you that she masturbated to in the past, what would your reaction be? Men and women are different so that doesn't really count. 99.999999% of men wouldnt have the slightest problem with it and the vast majority would be flattered and find it hot. Some women won't have a problem, some will and for some it will be a deal breaker. Never try to judge women by what men like. 1
oldshirt Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 As far as your original question, your masturbatory habits are your business and your business alone. Noone has any reason or any right to know what you do with your own body behind closed doors. I've been married for over 18 years and have never once told my wife anything about what I do on my own time nor have I asked her anything about hers. As long as we take care of each other's needs together, what each of us does in private on our own time is no-one else's business. 1
gaius Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I might think that is creepy. I masturbate to hello kitty sometimes. Good job on telling her, women like that kind of stuff. Even though guys are taught not to do it growing up. 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 I masturbate to hello kitty sometimes. Good job on telling her, women like that kind of stuff. Even though guys are taught not to do it growing up. I was quite sure she wouldn't react badly... but her exact reaction was something I really wanted to see for some reason. I was intensely curious. It was just such a regular thing that I did ... the change in my day to day life has been so intense that I can still not believe it. So when she asked me what the folder was I was like... oh shot. But then I realized, actually it's not porn, it's not dodgy, it's just a folder with regular pictures of mostly her and me in it. My actual porn is encrypted but I can't remember the password anyway. I jacked off to pics of my GF for so long that I haven't even accessed it for almost a year.
gaius Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I was quite sure she wouldn't react badly... but her exact reaction was something I really wanted to see for some reason. I was intensely curious. It was just such a regular thing that I did ... the change in my day to day life has been so intense that I can still not believe it. So when she asked me what the folder was I was like... oh shot. But then I realized, actually it's not porn, it's not dodgy, it's just a folder with regular pictures of mostly her and me in it. My actual porn is encrypted but I can't remember the password anyway. I jacked off to pics of my GF for so long that I haven't even accessed it for almost a year. Another thing you should tell her. Sometimes if I've known a girl I'm dating long enough before we started dating I'll point out my boner on dates with her, stuff like that. Randomly tell her the raw fantasies I'm having about her in my head. Even pointed out how much cum was in the gross used condom one time. The stuff you're never supposed to do as a guy. You have to inch into and be a little careful but on a basic level women love knowing you're into them sexually. As long as they like you back of course. Probably a little bit too even if they don't like you.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Which part, lol Another thing you should tell her. Sometimes if I've known a girl I'm dating long enough before we started dating I'll point out my boner on dates with her, stuff like that. Randomly tell her the raw fantasies I'm having about her in my head. Even pointed out how much cum was in the gross used condom one time. The stuff you're never supposed to do as a guy. You have to inch into and be a little careful but on a basic level women love knowing you're into them sexually. As long as they like you back of course. Probably a little bit too even if they don't like you.
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