Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 So two nights ago my girlfriend saw my folder on my laptop that has pics of her and me and pics of just her in it. She seemed quite excited about it and asked if I was making a scrap book. Lol. The truth is up until recently I used the pics to masturbate to. Should I tell her this? 3
Els Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Uhhhh. I don't see any harm in it, but it's not anything important anyway. It would come across as pretty freaky if you went into it all confession-like. "I have something to tell you..." So nah, you can tell her if the conversation comes up, otherwise don't bother. 2
Smthn_Like_Olivia Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Some things are better kept private. You might wanna go ahead and make a scrap book just to make her happy though. Lol. 8
somedude81 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Don't tell her that you've been jerking off to them. Do tell her that you just like having pictures of her. There's nothing more to it. 2
soccerrprp Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Hmmmm, in some strange way, I would think that it would flattering to her. 3
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Uhhhh. I don't see any harm in it, but it's not anything important anyway. It would come across as pretty freaky if you went into it all confession-like. "I have something to tell you..." So nah, you can tell her if the conversation comes up, otherwise don't bother. Lol... The confession scenario does sound freaky but it's been such a long standing thing for me to do... I can't help wondering how she'd react to it.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Some things are better kept private. You might wanna go ahead and make a scrap book just to make her happy though. Lol. I had to stop myself from laughing when she said that. SO not what the folder was created for 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Don't tell her that you've been jerking off to them. Do tell her that you just like having pictures of her. There's nothing more to it. Do you think she'd be offended?
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Hmmmm, in some strange way, I would think that it would flattering to her. Well there are a few reactions she could have: 1 Flattered 2 Freaked out 3 Offended She's very mellow so I doubt a bad reaction but you never know, women are strange
Imajerk17 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 You've written 12 threads in two weeks. This has to be some sort of LS record. No don't tell her that (to answer your original question). You ever hear of keeping some mystery?
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 You've written 12 threads in two weeks. This has to be some sort of LS record. No don't tell her that (to answer your original question). You ever hear of keeping some mystery? I know. I'm kind of obsessed with her. I think about her all the time. I've never felt this way about someone. She has messiness issues but I am still falling hard for her.
Ruby Slippers Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 One of my boyfriends did this and asked me for pictures sometimes. I would do sexy little photo shoots for him now and then. I found it sexy and sweet. 5
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Haha I would be flattered in a way That's cool I'm really curious as to how she'd react but I'm worried that there is a small chance she'll be offended or freaked out.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 One of my boyfriends did this and asked me for pictures sometimes. I would do sexy little photo shoots for him now and then. I found it sexy and sweet. Nice The difference is that I did this before we were dating.. While we were just friends. So all the pics are from that period.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 The chance isn't small. She's very mellow so I'd say the chances are small... having said that though she's my first girlfriend, so my experience is very limited. I could be wrong. That's why I thought I'd throw it on here are see how other women would react.
oz-missy Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Well I'm curious if she's be flattered or not - if it was me I'd be totally flattered by it. I guess it depends on what kind of person she is. 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Girls are unpredictable. Some women don't care, some will think its cute, and others may be very offended. Not a smart risk. Good point. It does seem risky when you put it that way.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 So far though, there are 3 women who would be flattered, 1 that doesn't care and one that thinks I should keep it private (assuming she would be offended). So the stats are in favour of a flattered reply so far.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 It depends on how long you've been together too. We've been together for a week and half but we've been friends for almost a year. The pictures are from the friend period.
pickflicker Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Well I'm curious if she's be flattered or not - if it was me I'd be totally flattered by it. I guess it depends on what kind of person she is. Oh good, I'm not the only one. 2
Ruby Slippers Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Nice The difference is that I did this before we were dating.. While we were just friends. So all the pics are from that period. He did, too. Once we were together, he told me about his guilty pleasure. I was flattered and thought it was hot - so he asked for more 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Is she more conservative when it comes to sex? 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 He did, too. Once we were together, he told me about his guilty pleasure. I was flattered and thought it was hot - so he asked for more That's awesome! Maybe she will react the same way
Author Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Is she more conservative when it comes to sex? Well... not in terms of actually having sex. She enjoys it and wants it often. But if you mean in terms of kinky stuff, I'm not really sure yet...
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