HeartBroken082 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I have posted in the break up section about my recent break up. My relationship was only 5 months but I was in love with him, and am having a hard time getting over him. Just wanted to vent a little as today is a bad day and I want to be hopeful that I will find love again and feel the way about someone as I do him
preraph Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Sorry. The hardest breakup for me was after only 4 months, so I get it. The only answer to breaking up is to give yourself a short time to pine but then get back in the saddle. Once you've said/thought everything you can think of about it to get it off your chest, you need to be self-disciplined and stop yourself every time you think about him. Think of 2 bad things for every good thing, or whatever, until you get the love loop out of your head. Meanwhile, you need to go out all the time and stay busy with friends like as much as possible because this will eventually give your life new focus. Good luck.
Author HeartBroken082 Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Thank you....it's just so hard. I asked if i could see him one last time to say goodbye since we didnt have a proper one and he wont respond Just so hard to let go without a fight you know.
btvdts Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 It is very difficult to say good bye, but what I learned from my BU was that you really don't say goodbye and let it go. the goodbye comes with time. It comes when you no longer think of them like you did once. 2
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