bobba Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 im extremly ugly, im virgin(unkissed), very red lips (looks like lipstick), have sa, and on top of that...a small penis. girls know the can get better guys than me, eazy.
FrostBlaze Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Get a women if you feel you need one, not because society says so. Some don't feel the need, as rare as they may be. Lack of confidence sure won't get you any chicks and self pity, i should know. Unless you are a hideous monster with 3 eyes and 4 arms, you have a chance if you work on your self-esteem. The small dick...idk, not gonna lie, that's a problem to most women, unless you can compensate and use a strap on or some other method to make her enjoy it, god knows. How small is small... Find a asexual woman xD. Also i feel you are a troll for some reason, could be wrong.
Haydn Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Frost, i have this feeling you could be right. Get a women if you feel you need one, not because society says so. Some don't feel the need, as rare as they may be. Lack of confidence sure won't get you any chicks and self pity, i should know. Unless you are a hideous monster with 3 eyes and 4 arms, you have a chance if you work on your self-esteem. The small dick...idk, not gonna lie, that's a problem to most women, unless you can compensate and use a strap on or some other method to make her enjoy it, god knows. How small is small... Find a asexual woman xD. Also i feel you are a troll for some reason, could be wrong.
Author bobba Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Get a women if you feel you need one, not because society says so. Some don't feel the need, as rare as they may be. Lack of confidence sure won't get you any chicks and self pity, i should know. Unless you are a hideous monster with 3 eyes and 4 arms, you have a chance if you work on your self-esteem. The small dick...idk, not gonna lie, that's a problem to most women, unless you can compensate and use a strap on or some other method to make her enjoy it, god knows. How small is small... Find a asexual woman xD. Also i feel you are a troll for some reason, could be wrong. there is guys out there who cant get a girl only becuse small things like they are ugly or shy etc. i have many negative things :/ why should a women want me? almost all guys are better than me and she knows it. im not a troll, im just weird,
d0nnivain Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 There is a lid for every pot. Instead of calling yourself weird, think about yourself as being unique. There is no one exactly like you. Highlight your good qualities. Spend some time engaging in activities that make you happy. Somewhere in there you may meet women who share your same interests. You also need to work on your self confidence. If you don't like yourself other people won't like you either. Consider joining a group called ToastMasters. It helps to teach you to speak in public; it's wonderful for boosting self confidence. 1
Author bobba Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 There is a lid for every pot. Instead of calling yourself weird, think about yourself as being unique. There is no one exactly like you. Highlight your good qualities. Spend some time engaging in activities that make you happy. Somewhere in there you may meet women who share your same interests. You also need to work on your self confidence. If you don't like yourself other people won't like you either. Consider joining a group called ToastMasters. It helps to teach you to speak in public; it's wonderful for boosting self confidence. dosent matter what I do, im so ugly its hopeless for me.
AntiSocal Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 dosent matter what I do, im so ugly its hopeless for me. Women don't put nearly as much weight into looks as men do. I know several very ugly, very short, very broke men who have pretty good looking women. A girl can find an ugly man EXTREMELY sexy if he gives off an aura of confidence and power. Work on learning to love yourself. Think positive. Sit down and write out all your flaws. Work on changing the ones that you can change. For example if you are fat? Workout. If you feel ugly? Groom yourself and dress stylishly. If you are SA? Go to clubs weekly and step out of your comfort zone until that awkwardness is gone. Go down the list of flaws and change everyone that you are able to change. The ones that you can't change? (lip color for example) learn to love them and forget them. Try to see them as assets not hindrances. And like i said positive thoughts. Everyone has something about them that makes them feel less than. Even the most beautiful woman in the world has her insecurities. So you are no different than anyone else. You just allow these insecurities to take over your mind. Learn to always look at your positives. And one more time, CONFIDENT AURA. If you walk around as if you own the world women will assume that you must own it and they'll be attracted to you automatically. Goodluck. Practice makes perfect. I have been in a position similar to yours. Only way to really change is to just get out there and go for it.
KungFuJoe Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 im extremly ugly, im virgin(unkissed), very red lips (looks like lipstick), have sa, and on top of that...a small penis. girls know the can get better guys than me, eazy. Have you considered becoming a monk? Are you ok with shaving your head bald and wearing orange robes? 1
pteromom Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 The small dick...idk, not gonna lie, that's a problem to most women, unless you can compensate and use a strap on or some other method to make her enjoy it, god knows. How small is small... Find a asexual woman xD. Not really. A lot of women don't care about that, as long as he is willing to do what needs to be done to make her happy in that department. "Ugly" is subjective. There are VERY few people who are universally ugly to the point where they won't be able to find someone. And red lips? Who cares about that? A virgin? Doesn't matter. OP, if you WANT to find a woman, you gotta get out of your self-hating, and be open to it. If you don't want to find one, there's no reason you have to. 1
todreaminblue Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Hey bobba, no one person is meant to walk alone for their whole entire life, work on you........be happy with who you are, which you are not I gather........if you are happy and get happy you will surely make someone else happy....best wishes.dont worry i hav ebeen called a troll too.......deb
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Have you considered becoming a monk? Are you ok with shaving your head bald and wearing orange robes? you are the proof that people laugh at guys with bad self-esteem. thanks.
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Women don't put nearly as much weight into looks as men do. I know several very ugly, very short, very broke men who have pretty good looking women. A girl can find an ugly man EXTREMELY sexy if he gives off an aura of confidence and power. Work on learning to love yourself. Think positive. Sit down and write out all your flaws. Work on changing the ones that you can change. For example if you are fat? Workout. If you feel ugly? Groom yourself and dress stylishly. If you are SA? Go to clubs weekly and step out of your comfort zone until that awkwardness is gone. Go down the list of flaws and change everyone that you are able to change. The ones that you can't change? (lip color for example) learn to love them and forget them. Try to see them as assets not hindrances. And like i said positive thoughts. Everyone has something about them that makes them feel less than. Even the most beautiful woman in the world has her insecurities. So you are no different than anyone else. You just allow these insecurities to take over your mind. Learn to always look at your positives. And one more time, CONFIDENT AURA. If you walk around as if you own the world women will assume that you must own it and they'll be attracted to you automatically. Goodluck. Practice makes perfect. I have been in a position similar to yours. Only way to really change is to just get out there and go for it. im probaly one of the most ugly and strange guys in the world, no hope for me.
KungFuJoe Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 you are the proof that people laugh at guys with bad self-esteem. thanks. Ok...so I take the monk thing was a bad idea? How about circus performer?
d0nnivain Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Do you want to have a pity party or do you want to improve your situation? I really don't understand the self deprecation followed by a happy smiley face. What does that mean? Sitting on your computer ain't gonna do it. Why do you think you are ugly? Can you get braces or contacts? Would a better hair cut help? What about updating your wardrobe help? When people see each other with their hearts anyone can be beautiful. 2
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Not really. A lot of women don't care about that, as long as he is willing to do what needs to be done to make her happy in that department. "Ugly" is subjective. There are VERY few people who are universally ugly to the point where they won't be able to find someone. And red lips? Who cares about that? A virgin? Doesn't matter. OP, if you WANT to find a woman, you gotta get out of your self-hating, and be open to it. If you don't want to find one, there's no reason you have to. ofcourse they care, penis the most imortant part of a mans body. its a huge turn-off to have a small penis, my penis is 14 cm and thin. im universally ugly. i promise, if i showed some pictures of me you would have agreed. red lips is hot on girls, not on guys. i have been called shemale several times and people ask me why i wear lipstick. i really want a women, but i know i have no chance, i need to forget women but i dont know how. im bitter...
pteromom Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 im probaly one of the most ugly and strange guys in the world, no hope for me. If you truly think you are ugly and strange, why not try to find an ugly and strange woman - your female counterpart?
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Hey bobba, no one person is meant to walk alone for their whole entire life, work on you........be happy with who you are, which you are not I gather........if you are happy and get happy you will surely make someone else happy....best wishes.dont worry i hav ebeen called a troll too.......deb i have not had a friend since i was 17. im very alone.
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Ok...so I take the monk thing was a bad idea? How about circus performer? very funny, ha ha ha!
todreaminblue Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 i have not had a friend since i was 17. im very alone. how old are you bobba if you dont mind me asking...i have a feeling you arent twenty yet........deb
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 Do you want to have a pity party or do you want to improve your situation? I really don't understand the self deprecation followed by a happy smiley face. What does that mean? Sitting on your computer ain't gonna do it. Why do you think you are ugly? Can you get braces or contacts? Would a better hair cut help? What about updating your wardrobe help? When people see each other with their hearts anyone can be beautiful. i cant improve my situation, thats the thing, so im sitting here and are bitter. my dad, sister and brothers have called my ugly my whole life, and they keep doing it. and others also. they are right, im ugly.
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 If you truly think you are ugly and strange, why not try to find an ugly and strange woman - your female counterpart? hard to find, and its more eazy for girls to get partners/sex. even a girl that is "like me" would not want me.
Author bobba Posted March 28, 2014 Author Posted March 28, 2014 how old are you bobba if you dont mind me asking...i have a feeling you arent twenty yet........deb im soon 23.
pteromom Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 I have to say, I've had conversations with a bunch of people who have come on here saying they are ugly and will always be alone, and when they shared their photos, not ONE of them was really ugly. And a few were incredibly good looking. What you are feeling about yourself likely has very little to do with your looks, but probably goes much deeper than that. Someone somewhere convinced you that you were worthless, and you believed it. Doesn't mean it is true. Have you ever tried any kind of therapy? Have you looked into BDD? Honestly before you even try to find a woman, you need to get to a place where you look in the mirror and accept what you see. To get to a place where you realize you have a lot to offer a woman (outside of your looks and your penis - honestly there is so much more to life than that!!!)
Koopa Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 ofcourse they care, penis the most imortant part of a mans body. its a huge turn-off to have a small penis, my penis is 14 cm and thin. That is not true at all, most women don't even orgasm from vaginal sex, learn to use your fingers and tongue. 1
pteromom Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 my dad, sister and brothers have called my ugly my whole life, and they keep doing it. and others also. they are right, im ugly. Your family sounds horrible. I am sorry you grew up with that. But that doesn't make it true. People who call others "ugly" aren't doing it because the person is ugly. They are doing it because they have their own insecurities and it gives them a sense of power to make others feel badly. It sounds like you have some really messed up dynamics in your family. That does not make you ugly though. 1
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