3rd Date Question

[jrh1524]

Ok. Some stuff happened on my third date and I wanted to get your opinion.

 

2nd date I went with her to an outdoor event and concert. We stayed out until 2 am and at the end of the date there was make out a session and heavy under the underwear petting.

 

Between 2nd and 3rd date there was heavy communication and lots of talk about the future and relationships.

 

3rd date went to dinner and a walk. We wound up at my house. During our conversation she mentioned a bit about being b/f g/f and I said sure. Then she up and said that it was too early to be b/f g/f.

 

After a bit we got on the bed. We ended up completely naked. I felt like I was pushing things and she was letting me. We did everything up to sex, but when I tried to go all the way she stopped us. About three times we would get hot and heavy and I thought she was giving me signals for sex but then she'd stop us again. She kept saying she really wanted to but didn't think it was a good idea. She ended up finishing me in other ways then we laid there for a while.

 

This morning I texted her and haven't heard back. I feel like a jackass for pushing for sex and getting denied so many times. I have these thoughts that maybe what I thought were signals to initiate really weren't.

 

How should I play this?

[PegNosePete]

You texted her, wait to see what she replies.

[Gaeta]

You have nothing to feel bad about. Yes you may have misread her signals but you pulled back each time she said no and respected her wishes, right?

[Mrin]

Hindsight is 20-20. You probably should have chilled. She took care of you but did you take care of her? She's probably wrestling with the "do I like him enough" question. Gotta let her percolate and not weird her out. Just give her time and space.

[David87]

Wait for her to respond to your text and will go from there. You didn't do anything wrong