Silver93 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Ok here is the situation. There is this girl I like. We've been acquaintances for a good while (we actually went to school together). She lives about a mile from me, we have known each other for a while but we've never really hung out or anything. We say hello whenever we see each other. I am interested in her because she is beautiful, friendly, smart, fun and she is a lovely person. The biggest problem I have is that she is really popular and I am quite shy. I don't know if she is interested in me and I am worried that she might see my shyness as me being boring. I have never asked a girl out and I am wondering should I just go up to her and ask her out or what? Thanks for reading.
toungeofcolicab Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 What have you got to lose man? Everything to gain 1
Omei Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Yeah ask her out, if she says no the panic, wonder and shyness about her will be gone and you can relax again. If she says yes yippieeee!!! Good luck 1
Author Silver93 Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 Yeah ask her out, if she says no the panic, wonder and shyness about her will be gone and you can relax again. If she says yes yippieeee!!! Good luck I honestly think that I don't have a chance with her. It's nice thinking I might though
d0nnivain Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Chat with her a little bit more. Don't cross into the friend zone but get on her radar. Then ask her out. If there is something coming at school like a dance, you can accelerate your time table.
Author Silver93 Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 Chat with her a little bit more. Don't cross into the friend zone but get on her radar. Then ask her out. If there is something coming at school like a dance, you can accelerate your time table. We're no longer at school together so I rarely get to see her apart from when I'm out when I might see her. She is a real catch so I don't see her being single for too long.
somedude81 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I have never asked a girl out and I am wondering should I just go up to her and ask her out or what? Now's a good time to start. Start getting used to rejection that is. It's something every man has to go through. I'm going to ask out a girl today. Odds are she'll turn me down. That's life. 3
Author Silver93 Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 I think that I could do with getting to know her a bot better before I ask her out so as I don't freak her out. My problem with that is I don't get many opportunities to see her.
somedude81 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I think that I could do with getting to know her a bot better before I ask her out so as I don't freak her out. My problem with that is I don't get many opportunities to see her. The more time you take, the greater the odds that somebody beats you to her. Also beware of getting vague answers from girls. Apparently many of them don't like saying no. 1
Medium.Lumo Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 I never asked my girlfriend out. I was similar to you, thought I didn't have a chance because she is so hot and sweet. But she showed some interest - so I requested a relationship on Facebook. Lol. 1
Omei Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 I never asked my girlfriend out. I was similar to you, thought I didn't have a chance because she is so hot and sweet. But she showed some interest - so I requested a relationship on Facebook. Lol. This guy had luck with him, dont wait around for it to float your way! Ask her out! 1
David87 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 I think that I could do with getting to know her a bot better before I ask her out so as I don't freak her out. My problem with that is I don't get many opportunities to see her. Yes you could get to know her better on your first date, so ask her out while you still have the chance.
Author Silver93 Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Just ask! Did you? I haven't asked her out YET I love your optimism, I like the way you think
mema1982 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 A typical answer will b yeah just do that...!! BUT i think you shouldn't start with level 5 when ur only at level 1.!!! that's why i would suggest you to learn how to develop conversation with her and then build it slowly and eventually ask her out. 1
Author Silver93 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Quick update: Still haven't asked her out, really want to but can't bring myself to do it. I don't feel good enough for her which is holding me back.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Quick update: Still haven't asked her out, really want to but can't bring myself to do it. I don't feel good enough for her which is holding me back. Im in the same boat but Im female... We should take the plunge together.. Ill get a bottle of gin and we can drown our sorrows if it all goes wrong ha ha x 1
MidwestUSA Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Quick update: Still haven't asked her out, really want to but can't bring myself to do it. I don't feel good enough for her which is holding me back. Must. Stop. This. Way. Of. Thinking. Got it? Go do it! 2
Author Silver93 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Must. Stop. This. Way. Of. Thinking. Got it? Go do it! Thanks for the positivity
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Thanks for the positivity Yea go on... let us know how it goes then Ill make a decision on wether I will do it too ;-) lol x Worst case scenario she says no and u are no worse off than u are now... atleast u wont always be wondering x 1
slizl Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Just do it. If you think too much about it, you will never do it. You are in your own head. Don't think, just ask her out.
Author Silver93 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 Im in the same boat but Im female... We should take the plunge together.. Ill get a bottle of gin and we can drown our sorrows if it all goes wrong ha ha x I don't drink so make it a 7up and im there
Author Silver93 Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I really want to ask her out but I'm worried that if she turns me down it will make things awkward between us. Also seeing as though she has given me no hints that she is interested in me then I think it is a big risk to take. She is so nice that she might even agree to go out with me just so my feelings won't get hurt and then it would be awkward. I'm stuck.
somedude81 Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I really want to ask her out but I'm worried that if she turns me down it will make things awkward between us. Also seeing as though she has given me no hints that she is interested in me then I think it is a big risk to take. She is so nice that she might even agree to go out with me just so my feelings won't get hurt and then it would be awkward. I'm stuck. Yes it will be awkward. Then you go find somebody else to talk to. That's life.
Author Silver93 Posted May 1, 2014 Author Posted May 1, 2014 A month on a still haven't done anything. I know people say that you should just ask her out but I think that I would have a better chance if I could get to know her better before I let on about my romantic intentions. The problem is I can't find any opportunities to meet her.
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