DollyRocker Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 With my ex I had envisaged us getting married so the break up has hit hard because I feel I've lost a future I had planned for. I keep looking over photos of trips and holidays and it's sad knowing that things will never be the same. Last night I had a dream about him and we more passionate than we were ever together. I've dreamed about him every night. Is my sub-conscious trying to get him out of my system. Do you think this happened because there's someone better out there for me - someone who'll love and appreciate me more than my ex did? A bit like Sliding Doors ......
Arieswoman Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Dollyrocker, You asked Do you think this happened because there's someone better out there for me - someone who'll love and appreciate me more than my ex did? Yes, yes and yes again ! Love yourself, heal yourself then go and find them. 2
Author DollyRocker Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 The dreams I'm finding pretty hard going. I rarely dreamt about him when we were together. Is it good that I'm dreaming rather than suppressing things?
David87 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 You keep dreaming about him because you look at those pictures all day. My advice is to put them in a box and give them to a friend or put them far away in your garage. This will help you to get over him faster. 3
Arieswoman Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Dollyrocker, David87 has it nailed. Put those pictures away now. If you had a broken ankle you wouldn't keep jumping up and down on it,and expect it to heal, would you? You have a broken heart, so stop doing things that stop it healing. Stay strong, move on. There is a better relationship out there for you and I think you know it. Good Luck. 1
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