CadeYeager Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 This question is just out of curiosity. My ex girlfriend and I are no longer friends on FB. Every now and then I'll look here up though just to remember what she looks looks like since its been quite some time. I can't see any other information nor can she see any of mine. But today I looked her up and it turns out she blocked me. So why would she just now, months later block me? I mean she's the one that broke up with me, so I would have assumed she would do it from the very beginning of the BU, right?
Strength in Healing Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 You won't find out the answer, most likely. I understand you are confused, but likely you won't ever find the answer. I'd just take it for what it is. She blocked you, the end.
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I block my ex because *I* don't want to see his wall, not to prevent him from seeing mine. It's to relieve the obsessive thinking my mind wants to do.
Author CadeYeager Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 Why do you care? I'm just curious.
Author CadeYeager Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 Why? 10 Characters Well it's not because I'm hopeful about reconciliation. Honest truth. It's just pure curiosity. Why would someone who dumped you not block you after the BU but MONTHS after? Now my guess is she's having issues with it still. But I came here to get different perspectives and opinions.
KaliLove Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 The thing is..you're obviously still having issues with it as well. If you still care enough to ask, then you still care too much to be paying attention to her Facebook page. Why not block her back, then you won't know anything?
Author CadeYeager Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 The thing is..you're obviously still having issues with it as well. If you still care enough to ask, then you still care too much to be paying attention to her Facebook page. Why not block her back, then you won't know anything? Oh no doubt I'm not over it. Thats easily evident.
Hoosfoos Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 It's possible that she didn't want to block you initially because she didn't want to make such a statement, but over time having you on FB was preventing her from moving on so she made the decision later.
KaliLove Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Then you already know that these questions are really unhealthy and will not help you heal. Block block block!!!
Allumere Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 1) seeing you on facebook is a trigger for her so she needs you gone or 2) she is now with someone and pictures will get posted and she doesn't want to either deal with you or hurt you
thecrucible Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I've blocked exes before. I do it for my own benefit - so I won't be tempted to look at their profile and so I can signal that I want to end communication permanently. I know that's harsh but in my last situation, I felt like I had to. He kept contacting me wanting to be friends and I thought I could handle it, but couldn't. I tried to be friends but he was nasty to me. I've also blocked people months afterwards because I decide that continuing contact would be like flogging a dead horse and it's my way of moving on. I wouldn't take it too personally if I were you.
crederer Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I block my ex because *I* don't want to see his wall, not to prevent him from seeing mine. It's to relieve the obsessive thinking my mind wants to do. I was going to say this. Or she may have a new boyfriend and doesn't want to have to expose you to their happy, lovey dovey pictures. I still have my ex on fb but will likely block her when I get a new one for that very reason. I still care about her feelings and I'd probably want the same if the tables were turned.
Chi townD Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Well it's not because I'm hopeful about reconciliation. Honest truth. It's just pure curiosity. Why would someone who dumped you not block you after the BU but MONTHS after? Now my guess is she's having issues with it still. But I came here to get different perspectives and opinions. Could be that she's in a new relationship and she changed her profile pic to the two of them together. She didn't want to risk certain people (you) seeing that and starting any drama over it.
realfriends Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Because she's moving on, just like you should be.
AliasMobius Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 All running through every assumption of you going through my mind: A) Doesn't matter what she looks like because you're not kissing that face again. B) Doesn't matter if she blocked you, she's an ex, stop caring. C) Doesn't want you prying about and no you're not mentioned anywhere; you shouldn't really care. D) Don't need comparisons to any girl you're already dating or have in a relationship. E) Win - Win situation since she blocked you, it's not your problem because it wasn't your action, and she's doing you a favor. F) Don't worry, you'll never be forgotten in the back of the mind. Have a good day
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