neverlosshope Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Hey everyone! I wanted to get some advice on my situation. My ex gf of now 5 months (together 8 months) is sending some mixed signals. We broke up because of partly me being too controlling on her going into depression as winter approached. During her depression I supported her from a distance, let her talk to me and encouraged her to get help. She was extremely down and didnt want to do anything. Recently she has started to be more cheerful and not depressed. She had said when she broke up with me that she wanted to be able to make herself happy and feel confident again. I agree with this and she recently shared that she feels this way now! We have stayed friends through this which most would say is an issue, however I could not leave her in her depression. More recently she has started to try and make plans with me and her friends (before she wouldnt let me come around them). She has also lifted the touch barrier and is more allowing of hugs and has even kissed me randomly. Last week we went to dinner and I told her I still loved her and she said she did too but was so stressed with Nursing School she didnt know about it. She then reached for my hand as we left dinner.. Help!!! It feels like we arent broken up at times even though she says we are. I want to try a mild version of NC and just not see her but still occasionaly message her. Would this help her miss me?
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