Leigh 87 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 " you only had a physical connection but when it comes to talking to you as a friend, we don't click and I run out of things to say" Perfectly fine. " I just wasn't that into the sex because I am not all that attracted to you, I thought I was but as soon as your clothes came off I just didn't like what I saw. Plus you may want to consider washing yourself more adequately if you expect a guy to actually go down on you" ^^THAT is too honest.
Leigh 87 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Sex on date 3-5 is still early sex... and you CAN figure out chemistry before having full on sex. It's all about communication. If you can't communicate outside the bedroom, you won't be able communicate inside it either... All the other stuff can usually be worked out if everything else falls into place. Me personally... I don't like drama or hurt feelings. Another reason why I prefer to wait. I can figure out chemistry before the sex.... The thing is, even if the guy is bad with his hands, for instance, it feels very hot the second he touches me if I have the hots for HIM...
smackie9 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Don't sweat it, kaylan. You did the right thing. This girl is just butthurt that you broke things off with her. It's all her ego. The ladies here just supporting her because they're all sistahs, ya dig? I agree, that's why I stay out of the hen house, but I get pecked at in the process lol.
Emilia Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 The ladies here just supporting her because they're all sistahs, ya dig? I agree, that's why I stay out of the hen house, but I get pecked at in the process lol. I think it's a little retarded if your view of the opposite sex is so black and white that you aren't capable of trying to comprehend their perspective. You only end up short-changing yourself in the process.
smackie9 Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 The reason I gave her an explanation was based on the previous texts she was sending me and the vibe she was giving off. Oh wells *shrugs* Its done with. I usually rather give someone an explanation, instead of just giving them a quick blowoff. I would leave out the offering of friendship, most guys hate hearing it, and well so do women.
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