HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Okay so the guy I was seeing and I are back in touch and I dont want to screw it up!... Im not wanting to play games as such but what would people suggest would be a good way to increase his level of interest when we are just communicating via text.. has anyone been on the receiving end of a situation where they became more interested and curious and what were the actions that made that happen.. Im not trying to play games just want to be a little mysterious and increase his interest level x Any advice would be great x
nadinefleur Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Who ended things last time? How did you get back in touch? I assume he did if you want to increase his interest level? To remain a mystery to a man, you need to keep busy and have lots of activities and interests outside of your relationship. When texting, I wouldn't say play games as in wait an hour to respond because its normally quite obvious when someone is doing that. Just respond when you feel like it, if you feel like responding after 10 mins do it, if you feel like responding an hour later do it... 1
stillafool Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 I think if a guy is interested, he is interested. I don't think trying to act mysterious if you're not is going to make him want you more. People can feel when a situation is authentic. I say just be yourself and if that doesn't make him fall in love with you, it's hopeless. Did he come back to you and ask for a second chance? Is that how you got back together? 1
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 No we arent back together but back in communication which is why I really dont want to screw it up x
Noproblem Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 (edited) * he is not your bestie so don't tell him everything you did or did not over the weekend * you are not obliged to stay at your room till u receive his text just so you can ignore it for the next 2 hours. Go out, hAve your normal life and reply to his messages normally, not too eager or too cold! * Let him talk. Men love to talk about themselves! * if he said he'll call back later and he didn't for a day or 2 Don't be angry and don't ask him why! Just ignore his calls for the next 24 hours. * don't be too nice, meaning you step over your needs just to please him. Ex: if u r sleepy and he is bored, don't stay all night so he be happy! Say I'm sleepy And go have your beauty sleep. And don't be too rude either! *really don't wait for months until you meet ....go meet him in a public friendly place and see how it goes. Texting forever will only create a fantAsy world. Edited March 25, 2014 by Noproblem
slizl Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 He just wants to see if he can sleep with you again. Once he does, he will be out of the picture. Real talk.
slizl Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Buuuuuut, if you want him to be interested, just play games for 2-3 weeks. Don't text back when he texts you, when he asks you out, say you are busy, poke fun at him. This will work for a few weeks until he gets tired of the game and you will have to meet up with him or he will lose interest.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 How to increase interest via text.? Hmmm... How about be interesting!?
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