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Why I hate one-night-stands..


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You have such a way with words! I was laughing out loud at your description of her and your night together!:lmao:

I'm sure plenty of us have been there.

I seduced one of my workmates a while back when I was single, great looking guy, awesome body, nice personality, had no idea what to do with his cock though!

He was a bit like you describe, a bit of a flake out.

I realised after our fling, that he was NOT relationship material and he would probably NEVER satisfy me in the bedroom.

He is however still to this day a great mate. We're both engaged to other people now.

Enjoy your singledom. Each date is a new adventure.:)

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Care to share?:D

 

It's a lot to write, I'll make a thread about it later.

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Dude, I've said this to many posters on here.

 

If a girl is willing to put out so fast (especially from a dating website), don't expect anything more from her.

 

There are girls for relationships and girls for sex. This one is just for sex. Disconnect those emotions right now.

 

 

 

This.

 

 

I have been guilty of it before..(not intentionally) but I would say based on my own experience, that you should be suspicious of a woman that puts out too soon. Mostly because women who want to be seen as a potential girlfriend, don't want to mess it up with a guy and act like that. I think that it works the other way around too. If a person wants a relationship with you, they wouldn't do anything that wouldn't show them in a good light. Trust me. Be suspicious about anyone who's too up front too quickly. People who really want a relationship will want to feel it out with you first to figure out whether it's right.

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It's no big deal man. I've got some much uglier stories than this lol.

 

Right there with you.

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UPDATE :

 

she texted me today. said "im so sorry that i havent gotten back to you" and said she had a falling out with a room mate and he is in jail, and has been having to crash with friends.

 

either way, at least she touched based with me. but im to the point now where I realize what it is, and dont have very high expectations.

 

someone made a comment that really stuck with me. that i am in no conditional emotionally for another relationship sicne I just recently got out of a very deep one. thats a good point and I foudn that very helpful.. but I knew that all along. I still long for companionship though, I am human. I saw this opportunity and took it. I did get attached, yes. Not because I was fresh out of the relationship though. Because she was cool as ****. She seemed perfect. I know you don't really know someone after 2 days, but you can still get a good feel for them, especially me, with my people reading skills.

 

In other words... This woman is awesome. beautiful as well. which is why it has been hard to accept what this is.. but it is, in fact, what it is.

 

if ya dont know, now ya do...know...

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she could be a hipster whore. A tricky breed to decipher, indeed!

 

a whorpster?

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