Author Do_The_Herp Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 You probably need someone less all about clothes, shoes. I'm not coming from an angle of frustration, though. I don't care about those women, I'm not trying to be with them. So I don't know if you're exaggerating for sarcastic effect or what.. You're making it sound as if they need to wear excessively high heels or not be fashionable at all, or basically a nudist. No way.. I don't think that 4 inch heels are fashionable, they look like too much to me, like seeing some munchkin in elevator/platform shoes or some ****.. Like my sister. So ridiculous looking. I've worn them jokingly. They're uncomfortable as **** because they're not natural or healthy positions for the human foot to be in.
AntiSocal Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 You sound as bitter as they come. People are allowed to have their own standards. End of discussion. You may think that is shallow? I do not. Would you want to date a women who was 3 feet tall? No? Okay then. And at the end of the day wanting someone who is scaled to your body isn't shallow at all. I'm almost 6'5. Tall girls love me. You know why? Not because they are shallow but because i make them feel NORMAL. Everyone wants to feel normal. That is why tall people are attracted to each other. And short people are attracted to each other. Most tall girls are very self conscious and they don't want to be around a guy if they can't wear heels, or if they tower over the dude. It makes them feel manly and large and out of proportion. When they are around a dude like me they feel like things are suddenly how they are supposed to be. And i feel the same. Being tall can be a curse. When you are around short people you'll feel huge. Us tall people need to stick together. You stick with the average hieght people.
jay1983 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I agree with height requirements, I'm 5'11 with shoes on. I dated a girl who was about 5'9 and I didn't like it when she wore heels lol. You have to understand OLD is extreme, the girls have unrealistic expectations. 5'3 girls want 6' guys and trust me thats not the worst of it. Try this, List your height as 6', not to lie so you meet them, just to see if it makes any difference. Don't be surprised if it doesn't. On a side note, my ex's mother walked around the house on her tippy toes, because she was so use to wearing heels. 1
thecrucible Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Everyone has some weird irrational reason not to find someone attractive. Don't overfocus on it. I've found that I have these shallow looks requirements (everyone does) but with the right person, I don't give a crap. You're never going to know who you find attractive. Some people are very rigid and others are more open-minded.
topaMAXX Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I'm 5'6 and have had plenty of success from OLD. There are many women out there THAT DON'T care about whether you're 6+ inches taller than they are. I've date women as tall as 5'8 w/o issues (not with height anyway ). I've dated girls up to 5'10 and hooked up with girls even taller than that, all of whom I met in real life. However, I think short guys on OLD really have the chips stacked against them.
topaMAXX Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I agree with height requirements, I'm 5'11 with shoes on. I dated a girl who was about 5'9 and I didn't like it when she wore heels lol. You have to understand OLD is extreme, the girls have unrealistic expectations. 5'3 girls want 6' guys and trust me thats not the worst of it. Try this, List your height as 6', not to lie so you meet them, just to see if it makes any difference. Don't be surprised if it doesn't. On a side note, my ex's mother walked around the house on her tippy toes, because she was so use to wearing heels. I tried that before. I did get more responses and had more girls messaging me. To my surprise, it wasn't as much as I thought. Do you what will really get you down on OLD? Get a few pictures of a male model and put them up there. List his height as 6'3. Be vague about his job and don't make a profile. Just about every girl on every site will respond to you and some will message you first too. I tried that as an experiment after a friend suggested it to me. I immediately deleted my own OLD profile after seeing this. That proved to me that all that matters online is looks/height. 1
Mo_Do Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I tried that before. I did get more responses and had more girls messaging me. To my surprise, it wasn't as much as I thought. Do you what will really get you down on OLD? Get a few pictures of a male model and put them up there. List his height as 6'3. Be vague about his job and don't make a profile. Just about every girl on every site will respond to you and some will message you first too. I tried that as an experiment after a friend suggested it to me. I immediately deleted my own OLD profile after seeing this. That proved to me that all that matters online is looks/height. LOL and you wouldn't click on the profile of a big canned super model female either - even if just to scroll through her pictures? Give me a break... "I deleted my own OLD profile after seeing this"
topaMAXX Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 LOL and you wouldn't click on the profile of a big canned super model female either - even if just to scroll through her pictures? Give me a break... "I deleted my own OLD profile after seeing this" Most guys getting few to no responses and the model getting tons is proof enough that it's all about looks. These girls easily gave out their number and were down to hang out too. And the messages I sent under this guy were very boring. Do you really need more proof than that?
jay1983 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I tried that before. I did get more responses and had more girls messaging me. To my surprise, it wasn't as much as I thought. Do you what will really get you down on OLD? Get a few pictures of a male model and put them up there. List his height as 6'3. Be vague about his job and don't make a profile. Just about every girl on every site will respond to you and some will message you first too. I tried that as an experiment after a friend suggested it to me. I immediately deleted my own OLD profile after seeing this. That proved to me that all that matters online is looks/height. Yes I know, I've got links of some experiments that I give people when they ask why they're not having any luck. If I put together a really good message, I'd get more replies, but the conversation wouldn't really go anywhere. All they're doing is saying "thanks" They're not really interested. Even with my fairly good looks I meet zero girls. Don't think I was shooting for the stars either. I was going for very average looking girls. Only thing that happened with OLD was a friend of an ex saw me on there. Within a day everybody know about it, even my aunt asked me about it lol. I was embarrassed as hell, deleted my profile as soon as I could. So when said and done I don't look good enough. When they say you have to be good looking, they mean really good looking like the models in the experiments show. But hang on, I have one more thing, the last time I was on POF I think I had something going and I don't think it was because of my looks. Click on my profile and see the thread I posted. 1
TigerLilly78 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Same reason why a lot of guys don't want to date a "chubby" women its preference nothing wrong with that tho but if its ok for guys to be choosey biased on something superficial then I say heck whats good for the goose is good for the gander..
jay1983 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Same reason why a lot of guys don't want to date a "chubby" women its preference nothing wrong with that tho but if its ok for guys to be choosey biased on something superficial then I say heck whats good for the goose is good for the gander.. I even got rejected by some chubby girls lol
crederer Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 My ex would make a lot of jabs at me about my height. It was annoying. I'm 5'10 and she's 5'3 and she'd make comments about how she hates wearing heels now cause it makes her taller than me. Like wtf? No, no you're still several inches shorter. Not to mention when she's going somewhere wearing heels I'd normally wear dress shoes that bump me up about an inch and a half anyway. In pictures and stuff I'd still be towering over her by a good 3 or 4 inches. I dunno what the hell that was about.
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