Strongusername Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Me and my ex broke up in February, I begged not to go like an Idiot twice in the first 2 weeks as she was moving out back to her dads, I was on limited contact in the first month as she kept forgetting things at my place. Now that she has nothing left here ive been no contact for 2 weeks. After the BU she was trying to show she was overly happy by posting quotes of moving on on Instagram, I unfriended her on facebook but still follow each other on instagram. I was doing so good of not stalking her facebook but for some reason today I checked her out, all her pictures are private but last week end ,she went out partying and made sure her pictures were public probably so I see shes having fun Now I feel like crap because I miss her so much and even tho she knows she broke my heart I feel she wants to show shes so happy now and put it in my face. I want to move on but part of me wants her to contact me to say she made a mistake
KevinC Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Sorry to hear that Strong but one thing i have learned here is that ignorance is bliss. The less you know and see the better for you. I know its hard, i struggled as well to break the last tie with my ex but it did help me. You know what you have to do, you just have to be like your username and be strong...block everything everywhere. Social media is awesome to stay connected but its a thorn in our sides when trying to let go of someone. 2
Author Strongusername Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 Sorry to hear that Strong but one thing i have learned here is that ignorance is bliss. The less you know and see the better for you. I know its hard, i struggled as well to break the last tie with my ex but it did help me. You know what you have to do, you just have to be like your username and be strong...block everything everywhere. Social media is awesome to stay connected but its a thorn in our sides when trying to let go of someone. You're right I know what to do, but the only thing that keeps me from blocking everything is I don't want to show her th BU is affecting me so much, I had great chemistry with this girl but within two weeks before break up she was acting cold and then finally said she lost feelings, it was just so quick. Cest pas facile...
KevinC Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Non c pas facile mon ami Really in the big picture she probably knows its affecting you but it really doesnt matter. Take back the power back block her and dont answer to anything maybe that will affect her. You never know how ppl react but thats the key...not knowing !
Author Strongusername Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 Its probably the best thing to do, right now all it feels like is game, who is going to win the break up game by showing we're happy On my side, even tho I been keeping myself busy going out having fun, I havent posted anything because I don't want to rub anything in her face It just makes me sad that instead of trying to reconnect or make an effort in the relationship we had , she chose to leave and give up
KevinC Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Exactly she chose to leave and give up so dont worry so much about what she will think. You are right its a game and now the name of the game is healing yourself so concentrate your energy on that.
a0009 Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 I agree with KevinC. When I was dumped I struggled with NC and when I initiated NC I healed faster from the BU. NC has helped so much and am on my way to recovery and I am happier than when I was in contact with her after the breakup. Please be in NC with her and do not care whatever she thinks. You got to be selfish and do it for you. Block her on social sites and everywhere and remember the saying " No news is good news".
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