Vero Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 I have a crush on this girl on my track team. We've talked from time to time about random things (especially at track meets) and I got the feeling that she sort of liked me. Because of this, I decided that I would ask her for her number during lunch time at our high school. I felt so embarrassed with the way I asked her because I did not form a conversation before I asked her. Literally just went up to her like the nervous wreck I was, and asked her. She said "ill give it to you at practice". Right before I asked her, her and her friends got up and rushed a little to get something from across the cafeteria, so she might have been in a rush. She came back with a cookie so I'm assuming it wasn't important. She might have said that because her friends were in the vicinity though. Anyway, that day at track practice I payed her no attention so I wouldn't come off as desperate for her number. She didn't give it to me, and she may have been trying to ignore me a little but idk. She also completely stopped liking my pictures on Instagram (sounds dumb, but hey..). This was the end of it for a while. Lately I've noticed that she sometimes tries to get my attention in different ways. Our high school Track team had a beach day, so when we were finally leaving the beach I stopped to tie my shoes, and she and her friend passed me by. She playfully said "wait, let wait for [my name] to tie his shoes!". Just playful things like that to get in my space. I sometimes notes she imitates my actions sometimes. If I look back quickly she would to the same. Today after practice, a lot of our teammates were waiting at the bus ramp to get picked up, and she was too. My friends and I passed by and she said "hi [my name]". Many of my teammates were talking and she left that conversation to say hi. Why is she going out of her way to do all this? Usually if a guy asks a girl for her phone number and she doesn't like him, she won't give it to him and will ignore him for the most part. It seems like she's trying to get my attention, but she didn't even give me the phone number! Why is she doing this? Is she even interested? What should I do next? Thanks!
GemmaUK Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 She is trying to get to know you a little bit. Even if a girl likes a guy from his appearance she'll want to get to know him. Talk to her, say hi (and use her name) to her also when you see her. There will be time to ask for that number again very soon..but she wants to know you like 'her' rather than just the look of her. 1
OhThatGirl Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 You should have asked for it at practice. She figured because you didn't, you weren't that interested. She's trying to build up some interest again so you will ask her. Do you ever see her when she isn't around her friends? You could try asking then. Or... Give her YOUR number and let her decide if she wants to use it. "Here's my number. Let me know if you want to get a smoothie after practice sometime." Or something. I don't know. What do kids do after school these days? Lol Make a move dude. Whatever happens, it's not going to kill you. 1
smackie9 Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Girls like the challenge, the chase, the build up of sexual tension. That why guys who act like they don't care, are kool and aloof get the most attention from girls. ya ya some say it's games, but in reality it's a dance. It's fun, it can be exciting, gets those butterflies a fluttering. It's known as the push and pull method. Some people just do it subconsciously, it's so natural, others can't but can learn it. You can hop onto youtube and look as some examples of this technique. 1
Author Vero Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 (edited) Sound good. I'll try it out! Edited March 25, 2014 by Vero
Author Vero Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 Let's say you have a crush on this girl at your high school. You guys are friends, but you haven't really talked much since 9th grade when you both had the same lunch period and before that you guys were friends since 7th grade. Since her entry into high school, she has been it three bad relationships, and now she is single. You see her at your lunch period sitting by herself waiting patiently for her friends to get lunch and sit down with her. She's by herself for around 5-7 minutes. You want to make a move, but you don't want to come back to her only to realize that she only wants to be "friends" and nothing more. What do you do when this scenario is the only chance you've got to interact with her and how would you proceed? Thanks!
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